Thoughts On Love?
Quaunaut
The longest seven days in history... Join Date: 2003-03-21 Member: 14759Members, Constellation, Reinforced - Shadow
The longest seven days in history... Join Date: 2003-03-21 Member: 14759Members, Constellation, Reinforced - Shadow
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<div class="IPBDescription">Asking the wrong Crowd? Nah.</div> I find myself in a odd situation right now.
I find myself heavily attracted to someone at my school.
I'm dedicated to someone, though. But seeing this person is rare: I can only see her once a week, and its a long distance thing, so even then, its just talking(during the week, massive homework[private cathlic school ftw- then again, she's getting invites to schools all over the world, and is only a freshmen in high school]).
Note that with girl #1, she's pretty, popular, and also likes me.
But I know more about girl #2, we have more in common, and we do better together.
But also, it hurts that I can't see her during the week, and most weekends too.
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I may be asking the wrong crowd, but hey- last time I did this for real, I got good answers.
I find myself heavily attracted to someone at my school.
I'm dedicated to someone, though. But seeing this person is rare: I can only see her once a week, and its a long distance thing, so even then, its just talking(during the week, massive homework[private cathlic school ftw- then again, she's getting invites to schools all over the world, and is only a freshmen in high school]).
Note that with girl #1, she's pretty, popular, and also likes me.
But I know more about girl #2, we have more in common, and we do better together.
But also, it hurts that I can't see her during the week, and most weekends too.
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I may be asking the wrong crowd, but hey- last time I did this for real, I got good answers.
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Then harass the unpopular one until she becomes bulemic and vomits her way into the cool kids, then you can "play both courts" and still be cool!
Yeah, and stopping looking at erotic pictures of 14 year old's might help.
i dont think asking out another girl when hes already in a relationship is a good idea =/
i dont think asking out another girl when hes already in a relationship is a good idea =/<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Unless he broke up his current relationship, which could only be a good idea if he was quite certain that this other girl would go out with him.
Yeah, and stopping looking at erotic pictures of 14 year old's might help. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
But they're so hot! <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/sad-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->
*shrug* That's just coming from me.
i dont think asking out another girl when hes already in a relationship is a good idea =/<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Unless he broke up his current relationship, which could only be a good idea if he was quite certain that this other girl would go out with him. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Thus the reason I asked.
No seriously... i just had a maybe crazy idea... bbuuut it might just work. Take a picture of both of them, and post. Would make it al that much easier for me to tip you. (This is serious, really)
I find myself heavily attracted to someone at my school.
I'm dedicated to someone, though. But seeing this person is rare: I can only see her once a week, and its a long distance thing, so even then, its just talking(during the week, massive homework[private cathlic school ftw- then again, she's getting invites to schools all over the world, and is only a freshmen in high school]).
Note that with girl #1, she's pretty, popular, and also likes me.
But I know more about girl #2, we have more in common, and we do better together.
But also, it hurts that I can't see her during the week, and most weekends too.
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I may be asking the wrong crowd, but hey- last time I did this for real, I got good answers. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Maybe I don't know *too* much here, but I'm an idealistic bum, and I say stick with the one you already know well but is long distance away and all of that...eventually you'll be able to see each other more, and splitting up just due to distance, although perhaps saving you pain in the short run, just doesn't seem worth it to me perticularly. *shrugs* Just my oppinion I guess'.
it would be a terrible thing to break up with her because you are attracted to another girl.
it would be worse to lead her on to think you want to be with her forever when you are just on a fling.
if you think she could be the one you wind up marrying, then she cant live faraway forever, and when you do get a chance to be together permanently, it will be greater than if you had been with her the whole time.
Another "Deep Thought" brought to you by everyone's favorite Hulk-lookalike. <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/biggrin-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->
So was Einstein's epiphany that led to the Theory of Relativity. An explanation does not make a wonder less wondrous.
But I know more about girl #2, we have more in common, and we do better together.
But also, it hurts that I can't see her during the week, and most weekends too. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Well damn. This is almost sickening. Go out with girl #1 because she looks nice, or go out with #2 because she's a nice person. I find it hard to believe that the question as to which should even arise.
Way to trivialise relationships. #2.
#2.
girl #2, we have <b>more <u>in common</u></b>, and we <b><u>do better</u> together</b><!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Are you blind?
girl #2, we have <b>more <u>in common</u></b>, and we <b><u>do better</u> together</b><!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Are you blind? <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
No, he's a typical male.
:P
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Well saying that would make you a typical female.
OH BURN.
I told my friend to take every chance that came as it might not happen again, I mean come on its YOU lol (lol disregard the you part) Then whad'ya know he listened and now hes been shackled (aka a boyfriend).
So the thing you have to think about it is which one is really worth it, in all honest words, you are the only one that can answer it.
THEN AGAIN...(using friend as an example)
Whenever he asks me for advice I tell him to jump off the bridge (still hasn't happened yet) and to dump her and go for another.
Sometimes you just have to ignore others and make up your own mind <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->
[u]Optional[u/]
<b>Option #1</b>
Or you could tell girl #1 to jump off a bridge and then you can go with #2
<b>Option #2</b>
Rid of both and go after Nem!
You know Option #2 has the best career aspects! You spend decades wondering why you can't make babies!
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Well saying that would make you a typical female.
OH BURN. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Lies! Lies! :O
So was Einstein's epiphany that led to the Theory of Relativity. An explanation does not make a wonder less wondrous. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Nem, you officially own. : )
Well, either way, GOOD LUCK TO QUANAUT! <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/biggrin-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->
What is it these kids are saying these days? QFT? Yes, I believe that is it.