I'm sorry to hear the custody went the wrong way. I'd like to know what happened, but you have no obligation to spell out your personal life here when it was posted here without you even knowing...
AbraWould you kindlyJoin Date: 2003-08-17Member: 19870Members
Sorry to hear about the outcome.
<span style='color:#000000;background:#000000'><span style='color:#000000;background:#000000'>more of these threads? the other guy yesterday, now this again?</span></span>
Disco, as for what happened, here's the short of the story:
His mother retains full custody, while I get 3 week-ends out of 4, plus alternating 2 weeks, 2 weeks during the summer. I also got imposed 400$+ child support monthly, money which I don't see the use of, since he still comes to my place on the week-ends with jeans too short for him, and shirts too small.
I get to drive him to activities that SHE registers him to, in her neighborhood, which is about 1 hour by car from me. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind the activities, but considering that I have him only on week-ends, I like doing stuff that the both of us can enjoy.
Meanwhile, he still lives in an environment that has a lot of screaming, a lot of swearing... Sorry. I just don't get that one.
<!--quoteo(post=1647512:date=Sep 4 2007, 10:53 PM:name=DirrrtyDog[SA])--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(DirrrtyDog[SA] @ Sep 4 2007, 10:53 PM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1647512"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec--> Disco, as for what happened, here's the short of the story:
His mother retains full custody, while I get 3 week-ends out of 4, plus alternating 2 weeks, 2 weeks during the summer. I also got imposed 400$+ child support monthly, money which I don't see the use of, since he still comes to my place on the week-ends with jeans too short for him, and shirts too small.
I get to drive him to activities that SHE registers him to, in her neighborhood, which is about 1 hour by car from me. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind the activities, but considering that I have him only on week-ends, I like doing stuff that the both of us can enjoy.
Meanwhile, he still lives in an environment that has a lot of screaming, a lot of swearing... Sorry. I just don't get that one.
Hope that answers your question.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Prahaps instead of just asking for a donation, you could of also apealed, across some pychology forums or some laywer forms, your story may of touched a heart that could of made time for your case with out the need for cash, some people simply earn to much in their jobs that they dont mind doing the job they love so much to help out those that need it. you may of also made a good and close benifital friend.
if worst comes to worst i am sure hte internet can point you to a bunch of miscevious malicous books that can teach you just about every thing you need to know to get rid of useless people, or how to open their eyes so they will smarten up their act. but i didnt conolen this message or method and hope it doesnt come to this.
Good point Nex. Although, I also failed to mention that the message Spawn posted was incomplete.
I did mention at the very end of the initial post that comments or words of encouragement would be as appreciated. Trust me, I looked often and hard to find solutions, was offered a few options that were not necessarily legal (or moral in my case). I should also point out that I started an updated thread on the Server Admins forum that gave the general lines of what I got, and what I intended to do from Aug 7th and on regarding reimbursement of those that sent money.
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<span style='color:#000000;background:#000000'><span style='color:#000000;background:#000000'>more of these threads? the other guy yesterday, now this again?</span></span>
His mother retains full custody, while I get 3 week-ends out of 4, plus alternating 2 weeks, 2 weeks during the summer. I also got imposed 400$+ child support monthly, money which I don't see the use of, since he still comes to my place on the week-ends with jeans too short for him, and shirts too small.
I get to drive him to activities that SHE registers him to, in her neighborhood, which is about 1 hour by car from me. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind the activities, but considering that I have him only on week-ends, I like doing stuff that the both of us can enjoy.
Meanwhile, he still lives in an environment that has a lot of screaming, a lot of swearing... Sorry. I just don't get that one.
Hope that answers your question.
Disco, as for what happened, here's the short of the story:
His mother retains full custody, while I get 3 week-ends out of 4, plus alternating 2 weeks, 2 weeks during the summer. I also got imposed 400$+ child support monthly, money which I don't see the use of, since he still comes to my place on the week-ends with jeans too short for him, and shirts too small.
I get to drive him to activities that SHE registers him to, in her neighborhood, which is about 1 hour by car from me. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind the activities, but considering that I have him only on week-ends, I like doing stuff that the both of us can enjoy.
Meanwhile, he still lives in an environment that has a lot of screaming, a lot of swearing... Sorry. I just don't get that one.
Hope that answers your question.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Prahaps instead of just asking for a donation, you could of also apealed, across some pychology forums or some laywer forms, your story may of touched a heart that could of made time for your case with out the need for cash, some people simply earn to much in their jobs that they dont mind doing the job they love so much to help out those that need it. you may of also made a good and close benifital friend.
if worst comes to worst i am sure hte internet can point you to a bunch of miscevious malicous books that can teach you just about every thing you need to know to get rid of useless people, or how to open their eyes so they will smarten up their act. but i didnt conolen this message or method and hope it doesnt come to this.
I did mention at the very end of the initial post that comments or words of encouragement would be as appreciated. Trust me, I looked often and hard to find solutions, was offered a few options that were not necessarily legal (or moral in my case). I should also point out that I started an updated thread on the Server Admins forum that gave the general lines of what I got, and what I intended to do from Aug 7th and on regarding reimbursement of those that sent money.
So to those that said this was a scam... not so.
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