My Growing Confusion

Owen1Owen1 Join Date: 2003-04-13 Member: 15457Members
<div class="IPBDescription">everyday brings another complication</div> recently i've been encountering lots of problems, they never happened before but now they just seem to pile up on me. i was very happily doing christmas shopping when my gf phoned me and said that my dog had had a stroke. i rushed home imeadietly to find him fine and just tired. none the less when i took him to the vets they said he'd had a stroke and recovered within 30 min. they then said that this was a phenomenon and that they wanted to run tests on him. (prob 1)

i've been going through my parents LP's recently and i'll be damned if my old man wants to sell them. so he wants to get them priced, thats fine. but he procedes to make me go and do it, all in 1 go. theres over 300 of them, and the coinniseur of records is all the way across town. (prob 2)

i took my gf clubbin' since we'd not spent the night out in like 2 weeks. we got to a club, got the drinks in, then started doing the usual thing of drinkin and dancin and such. after about 3 trips to the bar it seemed as if the barmaid was hitting on me, i kinda put it aside lightly and hinted about my gf. anyway it wasnt until i was going home that i realised that the barmaid was my ex... (man i'm stupid), and when i turned on my phone the next morning i recieved 3 texts (raunchy 1's). i didnt delete them and my gf saw. she said that she wanted answers. i explained truthfully but now it seems as if she's on to me as if she cant trust me. (prob 3)

so anyway, those are just a few of my complex stress cause, can any1 help?

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  • DreadDread Join Date: 2002-07-24 Member: 993Members
    <!--QuoteBegin--|Owen|+Dec 6 2003, 10:34 PM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (|Owen| @ Dec 6 2003, 10:34 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> so anyway, those are just a few of my complex stress cause, can any1 help? <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Are you sure this is the right forum?

    Anyway, I think you can handle problems 1 and 2 on your own. I didn't quite understand your problem three. Your girlfriend read your textmessages? What did your ex send to you? Why are you asking advices in a nerd forum? Wth is wrong with you? <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif'><!--endemo-->
  • uranium_235uranium_235 Join Date: 2002-11-20 Member: 9478Banned
    edited December 2003
    Your GF needs to lighten up. Go through her purse (Bazing!) and find a phone book, then tell her she's cheating with every guy in there. Yeah, that's just about what she did to you.
  • Owen1Owen1 Join Date: 2003-04-13 Member: 15457Members
    <!--QuoteBegin--Dread+Dec 6 2003, 10:59 PM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Dread @ Dec 6 2003, 10:59 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin--|Owen|+Dec 6 2003, 10:34 PM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (|Owen| @ Dec 6 2003, 10:34 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> so anyway, those are just a few of my complex stress cause, can any1 help? <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Are you sure this is the right forum?

    Anyway, I think you can handle problems 1 and 2 on your own. I didn't quite understand your problem three. Your girlfriend read your textmessages? What did your ex send to you? Why are you asking advices in a nerd forum? Wth is wrong with you? <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif'><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    nerds always have the best answers
  • KherasKheras Join Date: 2002-11-09 Member: 7869Members
    Records are heavy. Yup.
  • Owen1Owen1 Join Date: 2003-04-13 Member: 15457Members
    its more the fact my car's too small... only got a mini cooper
  • EpidemicEpidemic Dark Force Gorge Join Date: 2003-06-29 Member: 17781Members
    Well, rent a trailer then. And how is 1) a problem?
    Also, problem 3 will probably also solve itself over time (granted you told her the truth). Perhaps you should go to a swimming hall and take a few relaxing swims (and stuff <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif'><!--endemo-->)

    Anyway, all in all it's not that bad


    <!--emo&::nerdy::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/nerd.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='nerd.gif'><!--endemo--> (<---nerd) Powar!!!
  • HawkeyeHawkeye Join Date: 2002-10-31 Member: 1855Members
    edited December 2003
    A) I don't think this is a problem you can fix.

    B) What's an LP?

    C) If she doesn't believe you/get over it, she doesn't deserve you.

    <!--emo&::nerdy::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/nerd.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='nerd.gif'><!--endemo-->
  • DreadDread Join Date: 2002-07-24 Member: 993Members
    <!--QuoteBegin--Hawkeye+Dec 7 2003, 05:06 AM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Hawkeye @ Dec 7 2003, 05:06 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> What's an LP? <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    *smacks Hawkeye*
    <img src='http://www.fonoteca.ch/images/supports/lp.jpg' border='0' alt='user posted image'>
    Like a cassette or CD but older. Bleh, kids.
  • Owen1Owen1 Join Date: 2003-04-13 Member: 15457Members
    <!--QuoteBegin--Epidemic+Dec 7 2003, 01:27 AM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Epidemic @ Dec 7 2003, 01:27 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Well, rent a trailer then. And how is 1) a problem?
    Also, problem 3 will probably also solve itself over time (granted you told her the truth). Perhaps you should go to a swimming hall and take a few relaxing swims (and stuff <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif'><!--endemo-->)

    Anyway, all in all it's not that bad


    <!--emo&::nerdy::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/nerd.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='nerd.gif'><!--endemo--> (<---nerd) Powar!!! <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    1 is a problem because i have to go to the vets every other day. now thats not the problem its the fact that there's soo much to do

    i cant rent a trailer because i dont have the cash
  • EpidemicEpidemic Dark Force Gorge Join Date: 2003-06-29 Member: 17781Members
    Ask for your father for money to rent the trailer, it's his LPs afterall..

    Hawkeye, LPs are teh nubcaek of electronic audio

    Dread, wanna start a chess club? <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif'><!--endemo-->
  • taboofirestaboofires Join Date: 2002-11-24 Member: 9853Members
    A good rule of thumb when dealing with females (and to a lesser extent males) is that acting in retribution causes a whole lot more trouble than it's worth (and it's worth nothing, btw).

    Now, what might actually work is that you admitted your slowness about recognizing your ex to her, and how it relates to the msgs. Admitting a fault makes you more believable, so it doesn't look like you're just trying to squirm out of it.
  • Mr_JeburtOMr_JeburtO Join Date: 2003-08-29 Member: 20340Members
    im sickened that u find number 1 a problem,

    if that happened to me id got out of my way to visit the dog everyday,
  • Owen1Owen1 Join Date: 2003-04-13 Member: 15457Members
    no... my dog's with me, i have to take him for tests. i no it might prolong stroke patients lives but its screwing with my head. i have to now set a schedule based around everything (only used to be my job)
  • BurrBurr Join Date: 2002-11-19 Member: 9358Members
    wait.....these are your problems?

    Im sorry, but except for #1, I don't find these very problematic...annoying, maybe even frustarting to a degree, but problematic.....



    1. Hopefully, the test come out good, but still, your dog is still alive, which is a good thing. I have had to put 2 of my dogs out of their misery, and could only afford a bullet for each one(already had the gun).

    2. You don't need to make one trip, if you really need to make your dad shell out money for a trailer or a bigger rental car, theyre his records. Hell, I live on a farm, my dad makes me work knee deep in swine fecal matter average of two hours a day and the rest of the day is lugging heavy objects around, and do I get paid? Yes, In gratitude...

    3. Umm, I don't try to give advice on women problems because:
    A. Women can never be understood
    B. I don't trust something that bleeds for a week and doesn't die (eww....)
    C. At least you have a girlfriend, my last one cheated on me 10 times before actually leaving me, and
    in the last month I have been rejected by 3 women, each one playing with my head about
    a week before rejecting me!

    And people still wonder why I drink.....
  • DreadDread Join Date: 2002-07-24 Member: 993Members
    <!--QuoteBegin--Epidemic+Dec 7 2003, 04:13 PM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Epidemic @ Dec 7 2003, 04:13 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Hawkeye, LPs are teh nubcaek of electronic audio <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    <b>Wrong!</b>

    LPs are teh Vets of electronic audio and cds/minidiscs/mp3 are teh nubians.
  • Owen1Owen1 Join Date: 2003-04-13 Member: 15457Members
    prob 2 is sorted... i did it online <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif'><!--endemo-->
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