A Summer Of Ns...my Fall

escoolerescooler Join Date: 2003-02-28 Member: 14123Members
I have been of ns a year now......it hard i got cold turkey. hear at bradford uni england we cannot play games. it was tough but i did it. i opened my eyes to the world and was converted....i got myself a girlfriend (8 months now) a social life and have really enjoyed myself....just the odd game when i happen to be at home...(york). now summer comes i have no plans and fast internet at home. i will decend into my old ways i fear...when i come back in september i am livign in a new house with fast internet. i am scared of neglecting the rest of my life again. its ever that ot i do the ns graveyard shift (1am to 3 am). Why does ns have this effect on me...untill i was forced off it.

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  • lolfighterlolfighter Snark, Dire Join Date: 2003-04-20 Member: 15693Members
    NS, or maybe games in general, have that effect on people. NS does not cause physical addiction, only mental addiction, as we all know it has no physical influence on your body (aside from your wrist hurting from mouse overusage). You've seen both sides of the coin, both beeing NS-less and being NS-addicted. If you slip back into addiction, isn't that a choice? Isn't that what you prefer?
    We gamers joke about not having a life, as if gaming was a less legitimate hobby than, say, collecting stamps. It's not, though. It's a hobby pretty much like any other. It's not sport. You don't exercise while playing NS. You don't get less flabby from reading either, so how is gaming less legitimate than reading?

    Be proud of being a gamer. I am.

    <span style='font-size:7pt;line-height:100%'>The author is currently into his fifth month of cold turkey himself, and can't wait to get back to proper online play.</span>
  • JimBowenJimBowen Join Date: 2003-05-30 Member: 16873Members, Constellation
    edited June 2004
    Wow, your story is virtually identical to mine. I failed my AS's first time round due to being unable to leave NS alone. When I went to uni, I purposely didn't get a internet connection because I knew that it would screw up my work. I just got back from uni today, and the first thing ive done is go on the NS forums. Pray for me...

    *EDIT* I would just like to point out that im not as nerdy as ive just made my self out to be.
  • DrfuzzyDrfuzzy FEW... MORE.... INCHES... Join Date: 2003-09-21 Member: 21094Members
    Yea it gets pretty bad when your like me and you ignore your friends to finish some model or something computer related that has no benifit to you what so ever :/ lol
  • rennexrennex Join Date: 2002-11-01 Member: 2688Members
    Doing poorly in school because of gaming shows misplaced priorities.
  • ZekZek Join Date: 2002-11-10 Member: 7962Members, NS1 Playtester, Constellation, Reinforced - Shadow
    Depriving yourself of what you like to do isn't the solution to suffering schoolwork; teaching yourself some willpower is.
  • Garet_JaxGaret_Jax Join Date: 2003-02-23 Member: 13870Members, Constellation
    <!--QuoteBegin-Rennex+Jun 10 2004, 12:16 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Rennex @ Jun 10 2004, 12:16 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Doing poorly in school because of gaming shows misplaced priorities. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    The guy's right you know.

    I see this as a way to kill an hour.

    My uni (Sheffield) won't let Steam run, I spent a few days trying to get it to update, but I gave up and it doesnt bother me.

    With Summer just around the corner, sure I'll play NS again, but I never have, and never will, choose a game of NS over somethig social.

    No hackers in the real world <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • Jabba_The_HuntJabba_The_Hunt Join Date: 2003-01-05 Member: 11850Members
    Life is all about a personal balance, peronsally I hate the real world <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->

    but yeah if cant really join a clan cause I would prefer to go down the pub than play a clan game.


    I've been interested lately in wondering how real the internet is.
  • spetznatzspetznatz Join Date: 2003-11-11 Member: 22472Members
    Give in too eeeeeet! Until you can run on walls, fly, blink, xenocide, jetpack, phase and spore I shall choose ns over real life <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • BloodBallBloodBall Join Date: 2003-07-11 Member: 18098Members
    edited June 2004
    Learn to do both. Then don't tell the full truth about what you do (ie. don't tell people about your game addiction). Also, join clubs and/or sports. Most of all, spend more time with your girlfriend. Get a job.

    And find a good girlfriend like the one that made this <a href='http://www.xs4all.nl/~marcone/geekdudes.html' target='_blank'>http://www.xs4all.nl/~marcone/geekdudes.html</a>
  • SariselSarisel .::&#39; ( O ) &#39;;:-. .-.:;&#39; ( O ) &#39;::. Join Date: 2003-07-30 Member: 18557Members, Constellation
    <i>Fear no more the frown o’ the great,
    Thou art past the tyrant’s stroke;
    Care no more to clothe and eat,
    To thee the reed is as the oak:
    The sceptre, learning, physic, must
    All follow this and come to dust.</i>
  • coriscoris Join Date: 2003-07-08 Member: 18034Members, Constellation
    NS actually is addictive, as is all other computergames where you feel satisfied with what you just did (killed 13 skulks or whatever). When you feel satisfied, the brain releases a substance in your body to make you feel satisfied (i dont know what its called in english, in swedish its "endorfin"). Playing computergames makes the brain give you about 13-15 times more of this than when taking cokaine.
  • TrevelyanTrevelyan Join Date: 2003-03-23 Member: 14834Members
    edited June 2004
    Awsome... some more people to play NS with me! <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo-->

    You ever think that maybe... just maybe... that most of the real world shuns gamers because they are jealous of the fun we have?

    ^_^

    (>^-^)>
    <(^-^<)
  • tankefugltankefugl One Script To Rule Them All... Trondheim, Norway Join Date: 2002-11-14 Member: 8641Members, Retired Developer, NS1 Playtester, Constellation, NS2 Playtester, Squad Five Blue
    edited June 2004
    <!--QuoteBegin-coris+Jun 10 2004, 11:57 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (coris @ Jun 10 2004, 11:57 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> NS actually is addictive, as is all other computergames where you feel satisfied with what you just did (killed 13 skulks or whatever). When you feel satisfied, the brain releases a substance in your body to make you feel satisfied (i dont know what its called in english, in swedish its "endorfin"). Playing computergames makes the brain give you about 13-15 times more of this than when taking cokaine. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    I do not whether the numbers are correct (13-15 times?), but proteines in the endorphin family is produced. You actually get naturally/chemically high on succeeding.

    Can you get addicted? Of course, but there are more ways to get endorphines than playing computer games. Yawning, sugar, exercising, listening to certain music etc.

    Oh, and yes. I've disappeared from NS too .. not intentional <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/sad.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • Jabba_The_HuntJabba_The_Hunt Join Date: 2003-01-05 Member: 11850Members
    lol, that women's guide to geeks is brlliant, just wish i had a gf to show it to <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • BloodBallBloodBall Join Date: 2003-07-11 Member: 18098Members
    i have a girlfriend, but im not showing that to her, and shes not going to find out how much of a mad gamer i am :-P

    the thing that i find good about internet friends over real people, is just that. People online that you play with alot, you become friends with. There is no REAL discrimatory action online, there are racists and stuff that only use the n-word, and they get banned mostly. there, just like that, youve gotten rid of an idiot. In real life that is much harder to do, you cant just give a racist a note saying "you're banned" and he'll disappear, no matter HOW cool that would be. In games (at least where i play) people are all equal.
  • BlindFireBlindFire Join Date: 2003-03-28 Member: 14986Members
    Its ok if you play games a lot ONLY if you can do something else instead, I play way to much games but if the oppurtunity presents it self I do other stuff that I find fun, and I get good grades too.
  • KaMiKaZe1KaMiKaZe1 Join Date: 2002-11-18 Member: 9196Members
    I play games, and that is about it. I don't find socializing to be particularily fun, and school is overrated as well.


    I love my life. ^^
  • Dark_HandDark_Hand Join Date: 2002-11-06 Member: 7248Members
    edited June 2004
    Actually I find that guide demeaning, insulting, and stereotypical.

    Not everyone who can be classified as a 'geek' is a fat, introverted star trek fan.

    I'm pretty thin, outgoing, and I hate star trek. I'm into automotive technology, engine building and autocross racing as much as I am electronics and Natural Selection. Her assumptions about geeks being insecure, introverted, and socially maladjusted are as bigoted as any racists view of other cultures. You can find me, and others just like me just as easily at the race track as you will at a LAN party.

    Just because there are a few people that fit her description of a geek dosen't mean they're all the same.
  • AlignAlign Remain Calm Join Date: 2002-11-02 Member: 5216Forum Moderators, Constellation
    That just means you're a gamer, rather than a geek.
  • escoolerescooler Join Date: 2003-02-28 Member: 14123Members
    I just got home today...i just downloaded the updates...i am no longer a free man.
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