Being Raised In Hardcore Religious Homes

kidakida Join Date: 2003-02-20 Member: 13778Members
not very pleasant.

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  • SupernornSupernorn Best. Picture. Ever. Made. Ever. Join Date: 2002-11-07 Member: 7608Members, Constellation
  • SpetsnazSpetsnaz Join Date: 2003-12-26 Member: 24761Members, Constellation
    Bout that time aye chaps?

    Righto
  • CyndaneCyndane Join Date: 2003-11-15 Member: 22913Members
    I would have to agree, although I actually have reason behind it.


    1. Usually very protected and un-aware of the world around them (a.k.a. sheltered)

    2. Beliefs and values are pushed on said child and often they lack the open mind to change themselves.

    3. Sadly, most end up thinking they are always right and their religion is never wrong. <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/sad-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->


    *disclaimer* Just my experiences in growing up in a very, very catholic home. I am sure there are exceptions out there, just like with everything else. No offense to those of a particular religion of course.
  • JezpuhJezpuh Join Date: 2003-04-03 Member: 15157Banned
  • esunaesuna Rock Bottom Join Date: 2003-04-03 Member: 15175Members, Constellation
  • CplDavisCplDavis I hunt the arctic Snonos Join Date: 2003-01-09 Member: 12097Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-WoTLanfear+Feb 17 2005, 11:37 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (WoTLanfear @ Feb 17 2005, 11:37 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> I would have to agree, although I actually have reason behind it.


    1. Usually very protected and un-aware of the world around them (a.k.a. sheltered)

    2. Beliefs and values are pushed on said child and often they lack the open mind to change themselves.

    3. Sadly, most end up thinking they are always right and their religion is never wrong. <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/sad-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->


    *disclaimer* Just my experiences in growing up in a very, very catholic home. I am sure there are exceptions out there, just like with everything else. No offense to those of a particular religion of course. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    ha my family was pretty hard core catholic.
    I even went to one of those catholic schools for a time and had extra religin classes after school for like 9 years. People in my family taught the classes too.


    Needless to say all their hard work paid off any im now a devout athiest with my own developed values and morals. <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->


    And after some hard core debates with some of them over various contradictions in the bible and lots of other things they leave me alone now and deal with it. <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • CyndaneCyndane Join Date: 2003-11-15 Member: 22913Members
    Yeah.. my story doesn't quite have that happy of an ending, but the middle is where we both are even. Forced to go to a catholic school (nothing against it when it comes to general education I learned more about basic subjects then most in public schools) but the extra religion classes were not my favorite thing, let alone had to go to mass every wednesday morning. That did take up some class time so we didn't have "religion" class that day.
  • GrizzlyGrizzly Join Date: 2003-10-27 Member: 22025Members
    forcing your religon upon other people is evil
    tbh!
  • MrRadicalEdMrRadicalEd Turrent Master Join Date: 2004-08-13 Member: 30601Members
    I've had first hand experience with the matter after dating someone with a Pentecostal background and boy was that an adventure for the both of us. Let's just say she doesn't wear her hair the way she was taught to and now wears other things other than long skirts <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/wink-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • SnidelySnidely Join Date: 2003-02-04 Member: 13098Members
    edited February 2005
    But a moderate amount of religion in an upbringing isn't unhealthy. My mum's a Christian, she just doesn't shove it in anyone's face. I can respect that.

    What turned me away from God was going to a Protestant school. :|
  • JezpuhJezpuh Join Date: 2003-04-03 Member: 15157Banned
    <!--QuoteBegin-Grizzly+Feb 17 2005, 06:08 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Grizzly @ Feb 17 2005, 06:08 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> forcing your religon upon other people is evil
    tbh! <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    "tbh"? You're simply right!
  • Nil_IQNil_IQ Join Date: 2003-04-15 Member: 15520Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-Snidely+Feb 17 2005, 01:34 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Snidely @ Feb 17 2005, 01:34 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> But a moderate amount of religion in an upbringing isn't unhealthy. My mum's a Christian, she just doesn't shove it in anyone's face. I can respect that.

    What turned me away from God was going to a Protestant school. :| <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Ditto. Church services were always a good way to get out of doing any work for that particular day though. And making up rude words to the hymns, then seeing if the teachers notice that you and your friends are singing the "modified" version was always fun.

    I remember once we got the entire room to sing "While Shepherds washed their socks by night...." at the same time. That ruled.
  • SnidelySnidely Join Date: 2003-02-04 Member: 13098Members
    edited February 2005
    No. No, I would rather have done work.

    What was really sad was when the chaplain tried to make his sermons "interesting". Instead of just being interminably dull, he was dull and stupid looking.
  • GeminosityGeminosity :3 Join Date: 2003-09-08 Member: 20667Members
    I think we had religious ceremonies at my school... it's hard for me to tell because the minute the chaplain person stood up to speak I found myself zoning out rather quickly ^^;

    We also had these big paper things called 'hymn books'. Not sure what they were for but by golly they made good paddles for playing table hockey with a coin when you and your classmates were bored <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/biggrin-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • SnidelySnidely Join Date: 2003-02-04 Member: 13098Members
    Yeah, you'd just go onto "standby" mode. There's a brief moment where you can see the "please wait, preparing to standby" in someone's eyes, and then...blank. The continuous standing up/sitting down didn't prevent this.

    The way we were arranged, there was always a teache who could see us. No, no fun for us. Just monotonous, dull ritual.
  • SwiftspearSwiftspear Custim tital Join Date: 2003-10-29 Member: 22097Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-Grizzly+Feb 17 2005, 12:08 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Grizzly @ Feb 17 2005, 12:08 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> forcing your religon upon other people is evil
    tbh! <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Who's forced to do anything?

    Seems to me most of the people here who belive they were forced into christianity are athiest. No one belives anything they are "forced" to belive.
  • kidakida Join Date: 2003-02-20 Member: 13778Members
    i think he meant, "people who have no choice but to be influenced." and that is another type of force.
  • AlienCowAlienCow Join Date: 2003-09-20 Member: 21040Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-esuna+Feb 17 2005, 04:44 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (esuna @ Feb 17 2005, 04:44 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Indubitably! <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Thats one of my favourite words, but I have serious problems saying it for some reason.
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