Looks like my post on the second page is probably one of the most serious posts in this thread..
[/My thoughts] <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> Yeah, this forums getting less and less serious all the time ... <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/sad-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad-fix.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> The NS offtopic forum was ever serious? Man this thing must have been around alot longer then I thought!
Looks like my post on the second page is probably one of the most serious posts in this thread..
[/My thoughts] <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> Yeah, this forums getting less and less serious all the time ... <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/sad-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad-fix.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> The NS offtopic forum was ever serious? Man this thing must have been around alot longer then I thought! <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> Maybe so, but if a guy with a broken heart make a thread and need some good advices, then he shall get some. Definitely not joke posts.
KenichiThis is not a pie.Join Date: 2002-11-01Member: 2941Members, NS1 Playtester
edited March 2005
Ok, i read all the posts by the topic starter and skipped many of the rest.
I'll tell you straight off about 1 month ago my fiance of the last year and a half broke up with me. So i can tell you i can say (depending on how you felt for her) i know exactly how your feeling if not even more so. I know it sucks. It hurts probably more than you can describe. It also sounds like you fell prey to your own insecurities. I did this to myself at times. I was always unsure of myself and my worth to have her and and times acted really stupid. You seem to possibly have done this. The best advice i can give...move on. Remember i just got out of a very serious relationship so i know someone telling you to move on won't mean much normally, but remember that i understand. Focusing on getting her back, or how horrible your feeling won't help. It won't bring her back to you.
I loved my fiance from the bottom of my heart. With every fiber of my being. Now i find myself without her, and its killing me. I know i need to move on though, and I am trying. Find something else to occupy your mind. In my case i returned to NS after over a year and a half break from playtesting. NS has helped keep my mind busy, and offered many friends here to help me through it. Just try to move on. It hurts, but i can tell you that focusing on that hurt or the pain that you are feeling is not what you need.
Don't go drinking either. I know your underaged, but that doesn't stop most people. I tried going out drinking to. I woke up in a bathtub in boxers after apparantly drying to drink myself to death. Sorrow and alcohol do not mix well.
Keep your mind busy. Try to move on. Go at it a day at a time. You will get through it some how. Hopefully this means more coming from somone in similiar pains. This was your first girl. There will be more.
1) You can honestly say you'd do ANYTHING for her A) By anything, I don't mean bite the bullet or such... I mean would you stand before God and hand him your very soul if it would save her life, knowing that you'd never be able to be with her again, but at least she is safe. Could you take upon yourself to loose everything, if it meant keeping her by your side. Would you choose her... or your family.
2) You'd give yourself willingly to her
A) Ah yes, the big S- Sex... can you honestly say you'd give yourself to this girl without a second thought, sharing your (maybe) first time with her and knowing that you are now binding yourself to her in a way that can never be fully undone?
B) Yes, I'm only 16, my g/f's 15... but I can say we've been there done that on this one. Sex is good, not all that it's cracked up to be at this age (we're both still too young to appreciate it 100%... plus that I refuse to go the ENTIRE way with her, as I will not risk getting her pregnant) but let me tell you- a good relationship + good sex = a tight, everlasting relationship. Cause it's something that binds you and bonds you...
3) Can you honestly say that you could tolerate LIVING with her?
A) HEHEHEHE, NOPE! I know this one... I couldn't STAND being in the same house as my g/f... not yet... just cause she is SO insecure. Her mom's a spineless fool, her stepdads a flipping **** that deserves to (and probably will for he constantly denounces God and twists the bible and it's proverbs to his need) BURN in hell... she is a slave, but her dad is unable to do anything till her bro goes and joins the Navy this summer (he's a professional DJ... and has had 3 car accidents (all him rear-ending a sudden stopper... one of em on the flipping HIGHWAY) and he's unable to support 2 kids at his appartment) but her self esteem is SO low... she is always putting herself down... anyway, this is about your problems. Can you HONESTLY say you'd live with her forever?
If you can say yes to those 3 questions, it's most likely true blue 100% love... now BE HONEST!
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Looks like my post on the second page is probably one of the most serious posts in this thread..
[/My thoughts] <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Yeah, this forums getting less and less serious all the time ... <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/sad-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad-fix.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
The NS offtopic forum was ever serious? Man this thing must have been around alot longer then I thought!
Looks like my post on the second page is probably one of the most serious posts in this thread..
[/My thoughts] <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Yeah, this forums getting less and less serious all the time ... <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/sad-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad-fix.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
The NS offtopic forum was ever serious? Man this thing must have been around alot longer then I thought! <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Maybe so, but if a guy with a broken heart make a thread and need some good advices, then he shall get some.
Definitely not joke posts.
I'll tell you straight off about 1 month ago my fiance of the last year and a half broke up with me. So i can tell you i can say (depending on how you felt for her) i know exactly how your feeling if not even more so. I know it sucks. It hurts probably more than you can describe. It also sounds like you fell prey to your own insecurities. I did this to myself at times. I was always unsure of myself and my worth to have her and and times acted really stupid. You seem to possibly have done this. The best advice i can give...move on. Remember i just got out of a very serious relationship so i know someone telling you to move on won't mean much normally, but remember that i understand. Focusing on getting her back, or how horrible your feeling won't help. It won't bring her back to you.
I loved my fiance from the bottom of my heart. With every fiber of my being. Now i find myself without her, and its killing me. I know i need to move on though, and I am trying. Find something else to occupy your mind. In my case i returned to NS after over a year and a half break from playtesting. NS has helped keep my mind busy, and offered many friends here to help me through it. Just try to move on. It hurts, but i can tell you that focusing on that hurt or the pain that you are feeling is not what you need.
Don't go drinking either. I know your underaged, but that doesn't stop most people. I tried going out drinking to. I woke up in a bathtub in boxers after apparantly drying to drink myself to death. Sorrow and alcohol do not mix well.
Keep your mind busy. Try to move on. Go at it a day at a time. You will get through it some how. Hopefully this means more coming from somone in similiar pains. This was your first girl. There will be more.
It is NOT true love UNLESS
1) You can honestly say you'd do ANYTHING for her
A) By anything, I don't mean bite the bullet or such... I mean would you stand before God and hand him your very soul if it would save her life, knowing that you'd never be able to be with her again, but at least she is safe. Could you take upon yourself to loose everything, if it meant keeping her by your side. Would you choose her... or your family.
2) You'd give yourself willingly to her
A) Ah yes, the big S- Sex... can you honestly say you'd give yourself to this girl without a second thought, sharing your (maybe) first time with her and knowing that you are now binding yourself to her in a way that can never be fully undone?
B) Yes, I'm only 16, my g/f's 15... but I can say we've been there done that on this one. Sex is good, not all that it's cracked up to be at this age (we're both still too young to appreciate it 100%... plus that I refuse to go the ENTIRE way with her, as I will not risk getting her pregnant) but let me tell you- a good relationship + good sex = a tight, everlasting relationship. Cause it's something that binds you and bonds you...
3) Can you honestly say that you could tolerate LIVING with her?
A) HEHEHEHE, NOPE! I know this one... I couldn't STAND being in the same house as my g/f... not yet... just cause she is SO insecure. Her mom's a spineless fool, her stepdads a flipping **** that deserves to (and probably will for he constantly denounces God and twists the bible and it's proverbs to his need) BURN in hell... she is a slave, but her dad is unable to do anything till her bro goes and joins the Navy this summer (he's a professional DJ... and has had 3 car accidents (all him rear-ending a sudden stopper... one of em on the flipping HIGHWAY) and he's unable to support 2 kids at his appartment) but her self esteem is SO low... she is always putting herself down... anyway, this is about your problems. Can you HONESTLY say you'd live with her forever?
If you can say yes to those 3 questions, it's most likely true blue 100% love... now BE HONEST!
stop posting, just let this fall quitely into the abyss of the NS archives