Define Right And Wrong

DarkATiDarkATi Revelation 22:17 Join Date: 2003-06-20 Member: 17532Members, Reinforced - Shadow
I'm interested to know how you define "right and wrong". What makes something right? What makes something wrong? Who, if anyone, taught you right and wrong? Have you stuck to those teachings? How will you teach your children right and wrong? If questioned by an alien (terrestrial or otherwise <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> ) on right and wrong, what would you say?

I'll post my views later on, I'm interested in what you all think! <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->

Discuss.

~ DarkATi
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  • TommyVercettiTommyVercetti Join Date: 2003-02-10 Member: 13390Members, Constellation, Reinforced - Shadow
    Right is something I either believe or have no problem doing.

    Wrong is something that opposes my beliefs or I would feel bad about doing.

    I was brought up as a Catholic for show (grandparents, etc. all devout) but my parents are actually atheist/pantheist.

    So, it's all relative according to me. If I'm right, I'm right, and it stays that way until I'm proven wrong. And proving things is almost impossible when it comes to morality.
  • NumbersNotFoundNumbersNotFound Join Date: 2002-11-07 Member: 7556Members
    Right will perpetuate a fertile society for me and my offspring to grow up in.

    Wrong will cause generations to wane in the forseeable future.
  • CForresterCForrester P0rk(h0p Join Date: 2002-10-05 Member: 1439Members, Constellation
    If it's stealing, it's wrong. Otherwise, it's fine. (A lot of things can be defined as stealing. Murder, rape, etc...)

    I decided on this myself, actually.
  • CMEastCMEast Join Date: 2002-05-19 Member: 632Members
    Right is whatever hurts others least. It is purely subjective.

    I was influenced by my Mother who is one of the most moral people that I'd ever met. She used to take me to church (she was a methodist) but it didn't influence my morals at all, it just made me laugh.

    I have never once strayed from my morals actually although I've been sorely tempted.

    I hope to teach them by example, by trusting them to make up their own minds and giving them all the information they need to face any choice they need.

    If questioned by an Alien I'd say the same I've just written, possibly with hand gestures.
  • Blammo8Blammo8 Join Date: 2005-02-06 Member: 40141Members
    <!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Right is whatever hurts others least. It is purely subjective.<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->

    That's right <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/wink-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • DepotDepot The ModFather Join Date: 2002-11-09 Member: 7956Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-DarkATi+Jun 25 2005, 01:36 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (DarkATi @ Jun 25 2005, 01:36 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->I'm interested to know how you define "right and wrong". What makes something right? What makes something wrong? Who, if anyone, taught you right and wrong? Have you stuck to those teachings? How will you teach your children right and wrong? If questioned by an alien (terrestrial or otherwise  on right and wrong, what would you say?

    I'll post my views later on, I'm interested in what you all think!

    Discuss.

    ~ DarkATi<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    <b>What makes something right or wrong? </b>

    Society normally determines what's right and wrong, whether it's because of a particular religion or local, state and federal laws.

    <b>Who, if anyone, taught you right and wrong?</b>

    My parents taught me right and wrong, and their values came from their parents, and the religion they practiced. Yhe U.S Army even played a small part in it.

    <b>Have you stuck to those teachings? </b>

    For the most part yes. My parents did a fine job.

    <b>How will you teach your children right and wrong? </b>

    Reward and punishment works the best, or it did for me, as evidenced by how my wonderful daughter turned out.

    <b>If questioned by an alien (terrestrial or otherwise <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> ) on right and wrong, what would you say?</b>

    "Gimmee a shotty comm!" <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/wink-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • SnidelySnidely Join Date: 2003-02-04 Member: 13098Members
    I'd say this pretty much sums it up for me:
    <!--QuoteBegin-CForrester+--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (CForrester)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->If it's stealing, it's wrong. Otherwise, it's fine. (A lot of things can be defined as stealing. Murder, rape, etc...)<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Along with CMEast's post: do what you want to yourself, but don't do harm to others.
  • Blammo8Blammo8 Join Date: 2005-02-06 Member: 40141Members
    edited June 2005
    <!--QuoteBegin-Depot+Jun 25 2005, 09:01 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Depot @ Jun 25 2005, 09:01 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <b>If questioned by an alien (terrestrial or otherwise  <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> ) on right and wrong, what would you say?</b>

    "Gimmee a shotty comm!"  <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/wink-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink-fix.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    I'd have to agree with that <!--emo&::asrifle::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/asrifle.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='asrifle.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • X_StickmanX_Stickman Not good enough for a custom title. Join Date: 2003-04-15 Member: 15533Members, Constellation
    While personal "right and wrong" are indeed subjective, both to the individual and the situation, "right and wrong" in a given place are basically down to "The views of those who hold power".

    It sounds like a bit of "fight the man" anti-establishment propogander, but "right and wrong" are essentially the beliefs of the most powerful person/people in a given country / area.
  • BreakthroughBreakthrough Texture Artist (ns_prometheus) Join Date: 2005-03-27 Member: 46620Members, Constellation
    It all depends on the situation, how you're feeling at the time. Something may be right then, wrong later. It depends on who you are as a person.

    For me personally, I don't have any guilt doing anything, except to those who are already have had something done to them, if they're very young, or very old and experienced. I don't know why, I just feel really bad for these people. If it's anyone else, I could kill them and not give a f**k.
  • BaconTheoryBaconTheory Join Date: 2003-09-06 Member: 20615Members
    Ahh...I asked the same question a little while ago. Right and wrong are just concepts to be interpreted by a person. There is no true definition of right and wrong if you think about it. For example, suicide bombers. We believe that what they're doing is wrong, but in the eyes of the middle-eastern communitty, what they are doing is right. See, its all a matter of persepective.
  • BreakthroughBreakthrough Texture Artist (ns_prometheus) Join Date: 2005-03-27 Member: 46620Members, Constellation
    <!--QuoteBegin-BaconTheory+Jun 25 2005, 10:22 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (BaconTheory @ Jun 25 2005, 10:22 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Ahh...I asked the same question a little while ago. Right and wrong are just concepts to be interpreted by a person. There is no true definition of right and wrong if you think about it. For example, suicide bombers. We believe that what they're doing is wrong, but in the eyes of the middle-eastern communitty, what they are doing is right. See, its all a matter of persepective. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    That's absolutely true - you are only able to comprehend what you can understand. For those kids working in sweat shops, if they were born there, they don't know that it's wrong... They don't have any will to leave, because they don't know of anything else.
  • TransmissionTransmission Join Date: 2003-03-12 Member: 14456Members
    Personally, I like Kant's ideas. What's right is what is the morally correct option in a situation, regardless of the consequences, in a nutshell.

    What is defined as right is to be judged by the person, but it should treat people as an end and not a means, and the person should only make judgements which he would be willing to make a universal law to be applied to everyone.

    So in the case of suicide bombers, they're always wrong because they are taking the lives of others.
  • rottenapplerottenapple Join Date: 2005-06-20 Member: 54266Banned
    Depends on my opinion.
  • lolfighterlolfighter Snark, Dire Join Date: 2003-04-20 Member: 15693Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-Transmission+Jun 26 2005, 06:51 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Transmission @ Jun 26 2005, 06:51 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->[...]So in the case of suicide bombers, they're always wrong because they are taking the lives of others.<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    I've used that logic as well, because you can't take the lives of others and act all high and holy about it.

    But suicide bombers aside, what about the situations when the choice isn't between right and wrong, but between wrong and wrong? What if you have to take the life of one man to save another? Sometimes you have to do a wrong to prevent one.

    Let's just take the suicide bomber again: If somebody is running towards you with dynamite strapped to themselves, you have to shoot them to save yourself (and possibly others). You have committed a wrong by killing a fellow man, but it was a necessary wrong.

    If we define right and wrong as absolutes, then right is defined as 'what a man should always do' whereas wrong is defined as 'what a man should never do.' But that's not how reality works. In the real world, we are sometimes forced to do something that is wrong. And occasionally, refusing to do that wrong will result in an even greater wrong being done. Sometimes, the most right choice is still wrong.
  • pieceofsoappieceofsoap Join Date: 2002-11-21 Member: 9535Members, Constellation
    Right and wrong, in the context of action, are concepts that have no validity outside a sentient lifeform's existence, so generally I try not to use them. But, considering we really cant get around these concepts, as we live in society, I have found the definition most fitting "Right" is "That which promotes Life," and "Wrong," as "That which detracts from Life."
  • CMEastCMEast Join Date: 2002-05-19 Member: 632Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-lolfighter+Jun 26 2005, 01:21 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (lolfighter @ Jun 26 2005, 01:21 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> If somebody is running towards you with dynamite strapped to themselves, you have to shoot them to save yourself (and possibly others). You have committed a wrong by killing a fellow man, but it was a necessary wrong. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    You haven't commited a wrong, there is nothing inherently wrong with killing a person or, in fact, in any other action. As I said, right is subjective, not objective.

    And Kant... <i>almost</i> has a very appropriate name. He's Mr 'Catagorical Imperatives' guy and so instantly loses in my book. These things aren't set in stone, whether one was brought down from a mountain or not.

    Stickman: No, right isn't decided by anyone else. The powerful may try and stop you from doing what is right or may try to change your opinion but they cannot 'set' right and wrong for you. It doesn't matter if they are your king, your pope or your mom. There is no moral authority except yourself.
  • TrevelyanTrevelyan Join Date: 2003-03-23 Member: 14834Members
    I know in my heart what is right and wrong. I cannot imagine taking a book or a set of rules and defining things right and wrong through them. This world is evolving at a incredibly fast pace (take a look at the last 150 years), so you must be able to decide at any given moment what is right or wrong by looking at the current situation.

    Right and wrong are like a set of railroad tracks, twisting and turning with different sets of rails branching off. One way is right... one way is wrong. To use religion as a way to define what is right and wrong is the same as taking the same direction at every one of these crossroads...

    Left. Left. Left. Left. Left. Left... You may be right for now, but eventually you'll drive right off the tracks.
  • lolfighterlolfighter Snark, Dire Join Date: 2003-04-20 Member: 15693Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-CMEast+Jun 26 2005, 11:28 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (CMEast @ Jun 26 2005, 11:28 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->You haven't commited a wrong, there is nothing inherently wrong with killing a person[...]<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    That's your opinion, not mine. I happen to think that it is always wrong to kill. But sometimes it is the lesser evil.
  • CMEastCMEast Join Date: 2002-05-19 Member: 632Members
    See, I can't believe in the 'lesser evil', it's such a cop out. Of course you are entitled to your own opinion but, as I said, right is what hurts others least. Whatever you do hurts people so if we changed right to "what doesn't hurt" then <i>nothing</i> would ever be right. Ever!

    Be a good person is about choosing the correct path in life as much as you can, it isn't about being less evil and hurting less people than everyone else.
  • TheUdderOneTheUdderOne Join Date: 2004-05-04 Member: 28471Members
    Right and wrong are points of view. Plain and simple.
  • CMEastCMEast Join Date: 2002-05-19 Member: 632Members
    Yes but we can't just leave it at that because this is the place where people share points of view in the vain hope that we can change others <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/biggrin-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • ThaldarinThaldarin Alonzi&#33; Join Date: 2003-07-15 Member: 18173Members, Constellation
    <!--QuoteBegin-CMEast+Jun 25 2005, 07:47 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (CMEast @ Jun 25 2005, 07:47 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Right is whatever hurts others least. It is purely subjective. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Not if you consider it possible to 'be cruel to be kind'.
  • CrispyCrispy Jaded GD Join Date: 2004-08-22 Member: 30793Members, Constellation
    Right is saying that this post isn't needed. Wrong is playing rugby with baby phoetae heads.
  • lolfighterlolfighter Snark, Dire Join Date: 2003-04-20 Member: 15693Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-CMEast+Jun 27 2005, 03:52 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (CMEast @ Jun 27 2005, 03:52 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> See, I can't believe in the 'lesser evil', it's such a cop out. Of course you are entitled to your own opinion but, as I said, right is what hurts others least. Whatever you do hurts people so if we changed right to "what doesn't hurt" then <i>nothing</i> would ever be right. Ever!

    Be a good person is about choosing the correct path in life as much as you can, it isn't about being less evil and hurting less people than everyone else. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Well, I agree with you there: Only the most simple things tend to be completely "right." Much more often, it's a cobination of the two.
  • Status_QuoStatus_Quo Join Date: 2004-01-30 Member: 25749Members
    edited June 2005
    <!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->If questioned by an alien (terrestrial or otherwise  ) on right and wrong, what would you say?<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->

    "Seriously, what's up with you guys and all the anal probing?"

    Not really relevant as far as morality goes, but it's something I'd like an answer to.

    Edit: More on topic, it depends on your view of right and wrong. It's sort of like good vs evil and right vs wrong, I suppose. Traditionally, whoever has the biggest club can decide what's "right".
  • RaVeRaVe Join Date: 2003-06-20 Member: 17538Members
    I'm going with right and wrong being subjective here.

    I don't necessarily think about what is right and what is wrong. Usually, they're both right <b>and</b> wrong at the same time to me. To other people though, their decisions on what is 'right' or what is 'wrong' are heavily influenced by their upbringing and their lifestyles. I'll take an example between a vegetarian and non-vegetarian.

    The vegetarian believes that eating meat (and any derivatives of it) is wrong. However, the non-vegetarian will say it's alright. Those who are share the same views as the vegetarians go to his side. The same happens to the latter as well.

    If anything, right and wrong really don't exist. They are just beliefs that we want to hold dear to, shaped into our minds as 'the right', and 'the wrong'. When we see something that doesn't fit into our beliefs, 'the right', we often come to the conclusion that it is wrong. This was certainly true in the past when religions were a major part of everyone's lives.

    I could also take an example on these forums too. Some people think some certain words shouldn't be on the filter, yet some people do want them on the filter.

    Not that I want to question the rules or anything though <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • CMEastCMEast Join Date: 2002-05-19 Member: 632Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-Thaldarin+Jun 28 2005, 12:19 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Thaldarin @ Jun 28 2005, 12:19 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-CMEast+Jun 25 2005, 07:47 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (CMEast @ Jun 25 2005, 07:47 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Right is whatever hurts others least. It is purely subjective. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Not if you consider it possible to 'be cruel to be kind'. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Unless you are taking a more objective view of 'hurt' where hurting someone in the short term can save them loads of hurt over the course of their lives.

    lol: I can't actually think of any action which doesn't have even one possible negative point (although it might be very slight).
  • BulletHeadBulletHead Join Date: 2004-07-22 Member: 30049Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-CMEast+Jun 25 2005, 01:47 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (CMEast @ Jun 25 2005, 01:47 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Right is whatever hurts others least. It is purely subjective.

    I was influenced by my Mother who is one of the most moral people that I'd ever met. She used to take me to church (she was a methodist) but it didn't influence my morals at all, it just made me laugh.

    I have never once strayed from my morals actually although I've been sorely tempted.

    I hope to teach them by example, by trusting them to make up their own minds and giving them all the information they need to face any choice they need.

    If questioned by an Alien I'd say the same I've just written, possibly with hand gestures. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Tell that to the oil companies...

    Right involves doing what you must to complete a given task in the most efficient manner whilst not infringing the rights of others.


    Wrong is NOT burning OPEC at the stake.... >_>
  • CMEastCMEast Join Date: 2002-05-19 Member: 632Members
    if by 'given task' you mean life then yes, Ive said that <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->
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