That Love Word, Heh...

Black_Viper

<div class="IPBDescription">I need help using it...</div> Okay, so some of you may know, i moved across the US not to long ago, and well i started to go out and meet people. I met this girl, larua... We've been seeing each other for quite some time now, and well... It may be getting serious... Im not fond of using the love word, and well... Im not to sure if love is the best word right now to discribe my feelings for her.

Is there another word, much like "love" that can be said, something with sophistication, im not sure, if this was the best idea, coming here and posting like this... But you guys never let me down before...


This is really driving me crazy... We've been talking for like 8 days stright, from 12pm(When i wake up) till 4am(When she goes to bed), we've got to two concerts, shes met my parents... I mean, i really really like her, and i just want to express that, i just dont know how... And love is to clingie/early to say right now.

BulletHead

You're biochemical makeup changes in such away when you are around her as to cause a feeling of passion henceforth unknown to you untill this time.

That's what love is in a "scientific" nutshell <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->

Geminosity

you <3 her :3

Seriously though... there's plenty of phrases you could probably use 'fond of you, like you a lot, feel that we're close, etc'

Sounds to me like you're scared of frightening her off with the 4 letter word ^^

reasa

"I wish to continue exchanging fluids with your person on a perennial basis."

Edit: Don't actually say this.

Metalcat

your my best friend...

Black_Viper

<!--QuoteBegin-reasa+Jul 26 2005, 01:42 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (reasa @ Jul 26 2005, 01:42 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> "I wish to continue exchanging fluids with your person on a perennial basis." <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Heh... lol...


Ya, keep commiting...

Rob

Yes, I think love is too strong at the moment.

I'd just say something like, "I'd like to stay with you longer."

Simple, short. Let her know you want to keep the relationship going, etc. Course, I've had about as much luck with the fairer sex as the coyote has had catching the roadrunner. Take that as you will...

AlienCow

Hit her with the love.

Dubbilex

"Complete me, sugar?"

Thansal

gem hit it!


I less than three you!

or folow Dubb with "Gimme some sugar baby!"

Black_Viper

<!--QuoteBegin-AlienCow+Jul 26 2005, 01:55 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (AlienCow @ Jul 26 2005, 01:55 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Hit her with the love. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Naw, i dont want to scare her away when i barley really met her... Like i said its only been a few weeks... We've talked our selves crazy, and done quite a bit together...<--... and well, its still to early for me.

Thansal

look, in actuality you have 2 options:

1) Tell her yah ****en tool.

2) just let your actions speek for your self.

If you act your self and let your true emotions out she will get the general impression (unless she is as dense as I am, and those poeple are not all that common).


btw, are you actualy going out?

Ratonetwothreetwoone

i choo choo CHOOSE you

works better with a train nearby

BaconTheory

Why don't you want to use love? Anyway, try passion or adore or even <3 - "I lessthan symbol three you!"

Black_Viper

<!--QuoteBegin-Ratonetwothreetwoone+Jul 26 2005, 02:14 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Ratonetwothreetwoone @ Jul 26 2005, 02:14 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> i choo choo CHOOSE you

works better with a train nearby <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
LOL in waycross you cant get away from the trains, theres like a million of them, thats really funny u say taht...


And Thansal... Well... Its hard to explain what we've got, i wouldnt say were going out, we just go out... Get my drift?

And its not like im trying to get laid, its already happened...

Javert

There are those Dear Abby stories of couples who have had happy marriages without using the word once. And you know, it works.
You don't have to use the "love" word to express love. There are other words, other ways.
My gf doesn't like me using the word because of its power, or maybe it's too contrite in a society like this. But she knows and I knows that we like each other very much.

Metalcat

"i want to be your eternal slave"

Faskalia

I love you more than i loved the three girls that i mated before you.
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As you can see, the above sentence points out, that the concept of love is flawed. This is why i can only give you the following advice: "Go Hormons Go"

AlienCow

Not enough people say it. Tell her you love her. Its nice when people say that. Certainly think about it.

Kouji_San

Most Japanese people feel uncomfortable being that direct with their opinions or feelings. So they almost never use "I love you". Instead they use "I like you"

Maybe this is an idea and reason for you <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->

Thansal

<!--QuoteBegin-Black Viper+Jul 26 2005, 01:17 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Black Viper @ Jul 26 2005, 01:17 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-Ratonetwothreetwoone+Jul 26 2005, 02:14 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Ratonetwothreetwoone @ Jul 26 2005, 02:14 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> i choo choo CHOOSE you

works better with a train nearby <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
LOL in waycross you cant get away from the trains, theres like a million of them, thats really funny u say taht...


And Thansal... Well... Its hard to explain what we've got, i wouldnt say were going out, we just go out... Get my drift?

And its not like im trying to get laid, its already happened... <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
well, as I said.

let actions speak for you.

Do sometihng realy nice for her (take her on an honest to god date? Like dinner, play etc)


or just grow a pair and tell her that you love her yah ****en nub.







note this is all written with much <3 for you man

Dubbilex

<!--QuoteBegin-Faskalia+Jul 26 2005, 01:28 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Faskalia @ Jul 26 2005, 01:28 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->I love you more than i loved the three girls that i mated before you.
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As you can see, the above sentence points out, that the concept of love is flawed. This is why i can only give you the following advice: "Go Hormons Go"<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Not so. The first three could have just been mistakes. Love ain't a flawed concept - it's often just flawed in its execution.

Black_Viper

I have this thing going on My-Space maybe she'll get the hint:
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Tittle:
IR Green/Pink

Subject:
OK people this is the color game!
repost this and in the subject write:

GREEN: If your single and ready to mingle
YELLOW: If you like someone
RED: If you're taken
PINK: If you're single but your heart is taken and they know it
BLUE: If there is someone you really like, and are hoping they will ask you out.
WHITE: If your in love...
PURPLE: If you like being single

this game has hooked up many lovers so dont mess it up!
who knows maybe you'll get lucky-you animal!
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Now u know my My-Space, so add me! Anyway, dont worrie about the bad grammer, its a inside joke with us...

AlienCow

The force is too strong. Give in. Tell her what you need to tell her.

torque

<!--QuoteBegin-Kouji San+Jul 26 2005, 10:45 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Kouji San @ Jul 26 2005, 10:45 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Most Japanese people feel uncomfortable being that direct with their opinions or feelings. So they almost never use "I love you". Instead they use "I like you" <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
We also have ways in Japanese to say "I love you" without actually saying "I love you." <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->

reasa

<!--QuoteBegin-Kouji San+Jul 26 2005, 01:45 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Kouji San @ Jul 26 2005, 01:45 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Most Japanese people feel uncomfortable being that direct with their opinions or feelings. So they almost never use "I love you". Instead they use "I like you"

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Yet they have the cheek to celebrate a giant **** festival.

AlienCow

<!--QuoteBegin-reasa+Jul 26 2005, 07:25 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (reasa @ Jul 26 2005, 07:25 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-Kouji San+Jul 26 2005, 01:45 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Kouji San @ Jul 26 2005, 01:45 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Most Japanese people feel uncomfortable being that direct with their opinions or feelings. So they almost never use "I love you". Instead they use "I like you"

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Yet they have the cheek to celebrate a giant **** festival. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
A giant what festival? <!--emo&???--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/confused-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='confused-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->

TychoCelchuuu

Tell her if you were a pirate and she were a governer's daughter and you lived in the 1600's you would capture her and take her aboard your pirate ship then slowly woo her over a period of months until she became your co-captain and you ruthlessley ruled the seven seas together, giving and taking no quarter.

Or tell her you like her.

Nuketheplace

You could always just say <a href='http://www.penny-arcade.com/view.php?date=1999-02-17&res=h' target='_blank'>this.</a> That might be a little over the top though.

AlienCow

<!--QuoteBegin-Nuketheplace+Jul 26 2005, 07:48 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Nuketheplace @ Jul 26 2005, 07:48 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> You could always just say <a href='http://www.penny-arcade.com/view.php?date=1999-02-17&res=h' target='_blank'>this.</a> That might be a little over the top though. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
AAAAaaaaaawww! Romantically nerdy! Brings a tear to my eye. Or it would if I had the ability to cry.

Faskalia

<!--QuoteBegin-AlienCow+Jul 26 2005, 09:29 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (AlienCow @ Jul 26 2005, 09:29 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-reasa+Jul 26 2005, 07:25 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (reasa @ Jul 26 2005, 07:25 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-Kouji San+Jul 26 2005, 01:45 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Kouji San @ Jul 26 2005, 01:45 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Most Japanese people feel uncomfortable being that direct with their opinions or feelings. So they almost never use "I love you". Instead they use "I like you"

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Yet they have the cheek to celebrate a giant **** festival. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
A giant what festival? <!--emo&???--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/confused-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='confused-fix.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
A giant **** festival! <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
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(I must admit, that i actually wrote **** and not ****)