Okay Is Something Wrong With Me?
<div class="IPBDescription">Women wise....</div> I'm 24 atm and seem to have lost interest in women, I'm not saying I'm bent I don't find myself attracted to men I just seem to have lost interest in women. For example I was out this weekend and got chatted up by a few nice girls but just wasn't interested and couldn't be arsed talking to them; if I was 18 again I would have been off for a guaranteed shag.
This got me thinking, I've be shat on a few times in the past relationship wise so I think my ability to trust has been affected but it still doesn't explain why I've been turned off sex...I've gone form a couple of times a day type person to none at all in fact it's fast approching a year since I last slept with a woman which is knda worrying...
I'm only posting this on here cos there seems to be the odd pshychology buff on here, there are some people similar to me it seems like Moquano and nobody really knows me on here (if I spoke to some of my mates about this they might brand me an queer or something <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/sad-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad-fix.gif' /><!--endemo--> ).
This got me thinking, I've be shat on a few times in the past relationship wise so I think my ability to trust has been affected but it still doesn't explain why I've been turned off sex...I've gone form a couple of times a day type person to none at all in fact it's fast approching a year since I last slept with a woman which is knda worrying...
I'm only posting this on here cos there seems to be the odd pshychology buff on here, there are some people similar to me it seems like Moquano and nobody really knows me on here (if I spoke to some of my mates about this they might brand me an queer or something <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/sad-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad-fix.gif' /><!--endemo--> ).
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it isn't all that surprising you are not interested in women atm.
eventualy yo will probably find some one you will click with and things will change (again) <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->
just hang in there mate.
You're probably just in a slump. Give it a while.
It's because you're british. Don't worry, it's a normal part of life that british men go through, soon enough your sex drive will be completely replaced by tea and lawnbowls.
Hehehe
I find myself in your shoes a lot but for a completely different reason. I'm more often then not angered by the opposite sex. Its not that I have anything against woman, quite the opposite, its just all the pretty girls I meet are complete and total air heads whose greatest goal in life is to become something like Paris Hilton.
I won't go into the details of my personal life, but I’m some what of a recluse to begin with and when I do bother with people I'm like an ****/airhead magnet.
...and I'm American I can't just put on a pair of knickerbockers and a white wig and call it a day. <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Sig'd.
Woo that puts me in 3 peoples sigs at the moment, wonder if I’m up for a forum record soon? <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Also in light of this I think I’ll change mine up with Handmans great comment from the Discussion forums.
Woo that puts me in 3 peoples sigs at the moment, wonder if I’m up for a forum record soon? <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Sorry, I'm still ahead of you with 4. <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->
I wonder what the actual record is...
Woo that puts me in 3 peoples sigs at the moment, wonder if I’m up for a forum record soon? <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Sorry, I'm still ahead of you with 4. <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->
I wonder what the actual record is... <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
thats what you think! i will pass your record for sig qoutes!
Vman i think your just going through a phase or something it might have something to do with your previous relation ships and your subconcious (spelling massacre?) but i do think you will get over it
a) in need of some time to get other aspects of your life straightened out.
b) growing up perhaps?
Either way, enjoy the freedom that this escape from your libido has given you. Do what you feel you want to do, talk to people you like to talk to and generally kick back and relax. Being a slave to the urge to shag everything that moves is really not something to be missed.
Sig'd.
Damn, I feel like such a loser for doing this, chrono.
Pj, you are.
[00:43] <pjofsky> and to spell 'quote' right.
Sig'd
[00:43] <pjofsky> and to spell 'quote' right. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
[ 16:40:32 ] <Chrono> [qoute=Chrono Feb 7 2005, 01:32 AM]thats what you think! i will pass your record for sig qoutes![/qoute] Sig'd
maybe your problem is that its not that your not interested in women, its just your not interested in the women you've been being around. I mean I use to go after easy slutty chicks and just use and abuse them for action. but after a while it was all so meaningless. till finally I discovered that I wasn't bored with the opasit sex, I was just bored with the small spectrum of slutty women I've been going after, I started finding new girls to be around, smart intelegent women that were a lot more interesting then the old easy action hoes I was getting on all the time.
I recomend you just try to find yourself some more interesting women with more to offer but I really don't know your whole situation
I'm only posting this on here cos there seems to be the odd pshychology buff on here, there are some people similar to me it seems like Moquano and nobody really knows me on here (if I spoke to some of my mates about this they might brand me an queer or something ). <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
ill assume you meant me <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
dude, i wouldnt worry i live with my gf, but ok ill try to explain this, she is my friend first. gf 2nd.. i dont have many real life friends anymore, because i enjoy having fun and playing with her... being with her in other contexts is another issue, im not after a 'woman' im after a playmate first
that may sound odd, but yeah ive been cheated on so many times, just treated like **** lied to etc, i just wanted a friend.. dunno if that makes sense, but she is my best friend ya know?
what im saying is, make friends with some nice girls, don be thinking with your **** and youll be ok <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
i mean my gf plays ns she likes all the same stuff i do etc...
p.s V-man add me to msn you man ****.. i never come on irc anymore <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Brain, Look, Money.
So true.
I'll try and give my helpful input:
Maybe its just that, as eaglec said, you're growing up. Finding out that women are there for more than just screwing- their there to share problems with, and be truly a "lover" to. Sadly, most of this also includes getting bashed in the side of the head a lot- but you just gotta get by it, so you can find that right one.
TBH, congrats on not going for the quick fix of a one night stand- first step to dating girls who aren't hollow XD