First Negative NS Experience

danadadanada Join Date: 2009-12-09 Member: 69551Members
I've played NS1 for years, have put in good time with NS2, and today I came across my first negative experience.

There have been some negative views on towards newcomers, some of which I've shared (people complaining about the game, wanting a refund, etc), but tonight my views towards them kind of changed.

I'm an OK Marine com, but tonight I was Alien com for the first time. I understand how things work, but I was a bit slow with finding where things were in the interface, and having some trouble with cyst placement (stairs and ramps). Things were going well, I had a few RTs, regen, cara, then someone said to drop the hive. I built a drifter, but before it was finished I was told to "Get the fu-- out" and then was kick/banned from the server.

This all happened very quickly, and to someone who commed because nobody else did.

<b>New comms beware.</b> It's better to sit back and lose a match quickly than it is to at least give it a try.
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  • Master BlasterMaster Blaster Join Date: 2012-03-17 Member: 148908Banned
    That's nothing. Today I ensured that the alien team had 4 hives and every resource tower on Tram except marine base for OVER 60 minutes and I was still blamed becuase I:

    1) did not whip rush marine base (I did and they ARC'd it)

    2) did not magically recycle my whips because they were lagging the server

    3) did not get out of the comm chair/hive and singlehandedly win the game.

    They claimed I was "raging" because I explained that if they did not win the game soon, the server would crash (which it did and half the alien team was gone).

    I'm not "raging" because we did not win. It's because if you have every resouce tower and hive on the map for over 1 hour and you cannot end the game then something is going wrong. The team most often will look to the commander for blame, even when commander is fine or damn good at it.

    People are really dumb. People on the internet are dumber than that. Sorry you had to find this out today.

    My advice is just keep trying and find some team that has adults that actually ACT like adults and let you learn.
  • rantologyrantology Join Date: 2012-02-05 Member: 143750Members, NS2 Developer, NS2 Playtester, Squad Five Gold, NS2 Map Tester, Reinforced - Shadow, WC 2013 - Gold
    edited April 2012
    What server were you playing on?

    Sometimes people can get pretty implatient with newb/slow comms. Would recommend creating a local game with cheats 1 on and familiarizing yourself with tech trees / keybinds / interface w/e before hopping into a chair in a full pub. But then again it could have just been a terrible server with a MADmin.
  • TechercizerTechercizer 7th Player Join Date: 2011-06-11 Member: 103832Members
    These sound more like server issues than game ones. If you're getting kicked by an admin, talk to the server owners or look for somewhere with more tolerant admins. If your team doesn't appreciate your contribution, then, well, welcome to pubs =P. Not much you can do about ungrateful teammates except mute or f4.
  • danadadanada Join Date: 2009-12-09 Member: 69551Members
    edited April 2012
    <!--quoteo(post=1926224:date=Apr 17 2012, 12:52 AM:name=rantology)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (rantology @ Apr 17 2012, 12:52 AM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1926224"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->What server were you playing on?<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    All-in #1. All-in noobs was full, All-in #1 had 5 players when I joined, it was 3v3 so I decided I'd comm.

    <!--quoteo(post=1926225:date=Apr 17 2012, 12:54 AM:name=Techercizer)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Techercizer @ Apr 17 2012, 12:54 AM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1926225"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->These sound more like server issues than game ones. If you're getting kicked by an admin, talk to the server owners or look for somewhere with more tolerant admins. If your team doesn't appreciate your contribution, then, well, welcome to pubs =P. Not much you can do about ungrateful teammates except mute or f4.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

    Although I agree there's nothing the <i>game</i> itself can do about this, I just have been feeling a negative slide recently towards new players, and even old players trying new roles.
  • pRiNcEkAhUnApRiNcEkAhUnA Join Date: 2012-03-06 Member: 148264Members
    <!--quoteo(post=1926223:date=Apr 16 2012, 08:51 PM:name=Master Blaster)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Master Blaster @ Apr 16 2012, 08:51 PM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1926223"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->People are really dumb. People on the internet are dumber than that. Sorry you had to find this out today.

    My advice is just keep trying and find some team that has adults that actually ACT like adults and let you learn.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    +1
    I have experienced this myself on Lerk More| US where I congratulated someone on my team for a 15-1 K/D ratio in which I was banned soon after. :/ Now I just try to connect to a server Master Blaster is on because he doesn't put up with these idiots garbage. :)
  • rantologyrantology Join Date: 2012-02-05 Member: 143750Members, NS2 Developer, NS2 Playtester, Squad Five Gold, NS2 Map Tester, Reinforced - Shadow, WC 2013 - Gold
    <!--quoteo(post=1926226:date=Apr 16 2012, 10:54 PM:name=danada)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (danada @ Apr 16 2012, 10:54 PM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1926226"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->All-in #1. All-in noobs was full, All-in #1 had 5 players when I joined, it was 3v3 so I decided I'd comm.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->


    Sounds pretty unreasonable. Small games are terrible anyway, great way to learn to comm... don't see why someone would kick you.
  • TechercizerTechercizer 7th Player Join Date: 2011-06-11 Member: 103832Members
    edited April 2012
    Let's try not to make this thread about calling out servers we don't like. I'm sure there's someone with a grievance for every server out there ten times over; the important thing is not to point fingers, but to either address the situation by talking with the owners or by moving on and finding a server with more compatible admins.
  • WheeeeWheeee Join Date: 2003-02-18 Member: 13713Members, Reinforced - Shadow
    edited April 2012
    *snip* nothing to see here
  • danadadanada Join Date: 2009-12-09 Member: 69551Members
    <!--quoteo(post=1926229:date=Apr 17 2012, 12:59 AM:name=Techercizer)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Techercizer @ Apr 17 2012, 12:59 AM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1926229"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->Let's try not to make this thread about calling out servers we don't like. I'm sure there's someone with a grievance for every server out there ten times over; the important thing is not to point fingers, but to either address the situation by talking with the owners or by moving on and finding a server with more compatible admins.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

    This wasn't a callout thread, but the question was asked. Normally I'd just carry on and find a new place to play, but when there are only 3-4 active servers available, most of which are full, it's hard.

    I just wish people were nicer to newer players (:
  • TechercizerTechercizer 7th Player Join Date: 2011-06-11 Member: 103832Members
    edited April 2012
    Let's not point fingers at each other either. We're a large community; there are going to be some of us who don't see eye to eye. Let's move past that and try to find ways that everybody can have a positive NS2 experience.

    <!--quoteo(post=1926232:date=Apr 17 2012, 12:01 AM:name=danada)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (danada @ Apr 17 2012, 12:01 AM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1926232"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->This wasn't a callout thread, but the question was asked. Normally I'd just carry on and find a new place to play, but when there are only 3-4 active servers available, most of which are full, it's hard.

    I just wish people were nicer to newer players (:<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Nothing wrong with answering questions. It'd have been better if people just hadn't focused on which server it was in the first place, though.
  • DJPenguinDJPenguin Useless Join Date: 2003-07-29 Member: 18538Members
    stop trying to be ethical tech, you weren't there! we all enjoyed ourselves that game..right!?
  • WheeeeWheeee Join Date: 2003-02-18 Member: 13713Members, Reinforced - Shadow
    <!--quoteo(post=1926235:date=Apr 17 2012, 01:06 AM:name=DJPenguin)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (DJPenguin @ Apr 17 2012, 01:06 AM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1926235"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->stop trying to be ethical tech, you weren't there! we all enjoyed ourselves that game..right!?<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

    yeah that game was annoying on several, several fronts. worst of all being the fact that the server rate was so slow that bilebomb wouldn't fire/didn't do any damage.
  • TechercizerTechercizer 7th Player Join Date: 2011-06-11 Member: 103832Members
    edited April 2012
    <!--quoteo(post=1926235:date=Apr 17 2012, 12:06 AM:name=DJPenguin)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (DJPenguin @ Apr 17 2012, 12:06 AM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1926235"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->stop trying to be ethical tech, you weren't there! we all enjoyed ourselves that game..right!?<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    My memory has more holes in it than the literary device I had prepared for this remark. What is and is not fun isn't relevant here; if you have a beef with someone, take it up in private over a PM. My pub games end the second I see my desktop, and I see no reason to carry past grievances around with me.

    By all means, remember games and people you didn't enjoy so you can change your decisions of who and where to play accordingly, but don't let it take over civil discussions on the forums. I know we're have it in us to let those things go for the sake of discussions, or at least put them aside; I've seen it done to many times not to be convinced.
  • DJPenguinDJPenguin Useless Join Date: 2003-07-29 Member: 18538Members
    i'll let you in on a little secret.. our first commander recycled our IP's until i jumped in the chair, built them back up and started that monumental waste of time!
  • TechercizerTechercizer 7th Player Join Date: 2011-06-11 Member: 103832Members
    edited April 2012
    That really has no relation to the original post of this thread or the topic it was meant to address. What did or did not happen has already happened. Do we need to keep dragging it into the present?

    The original point of this thread was that a negative NS2 experience was had. I recommend either confronting (privately) or avoiding the source of the problem.
  • GORGEousGORGEous Join Date: 2012-02-19 Member: 146762Members, NS2 Map Tester
    Doesn't sound like All-in to ban you because you sucked at comm. Either there's more to the story or some madmin was having a bad day.


    Regardless, you should learn how to comm on an empty server. Or or your own server. Create game > open up console> type cheats 1 > learn the basics. Then go play.
  • TimTim Join Date: 2011-07-24 Member: 111958Members
    Sounds like you were playing on a server of scrubs. Recommend finding a new server that has a better community.
  • sickboysickboy Join Date: 2003-09-13 Member: 20804Members, Constellation
    edited April 2012
    This isn't the game's fault even remotely though... it's a "people are asses" problem and it's not just this game by any means. Try reading Youtube comments or posts on the *not naming names, but a popular gaming company that rhymes with Blazzird ;P (pretty tricky, eh?)* forums. Ugh. Talk about a**holes. Worst communities in the world.

    Solution? Don't play on their servers. If they (and I'm not saying they did... obviously I don't know the whole story) are really going to ban people for not knowing how to play, screw 'em. Get on another server and tell your friends the same. The communities full of jackasses will die and that'll be that. Granted it's kind of hard right now because with it still being beta there aren't a ton of games to choose from, but that'll change more and more.

    Personally, I don't comm because I'm terrified of that reaction (plus I'm crap at strategy and thinking.... and... stuff....). But all it takes is ONE nice person on a server to help you out (communicate to your team that you'll need help since you're learning, most of the time they won't rip your head off) to make your beginning comm experiences 1000x better.
  • DrakennzDrakennz Join Date: 2012-03-11 Member: 148620Members
    Yeah i havent had any experience with this yet but i do think there is a cloud of 12 year old console gamers who have not played ns1 or dont understand that NS is an artform of a game and you rarely come across flamers or people hating because your new. The reason i love NS is mostly because of the community - everyone is so helpful and kind - you dont get this in COD or any other "popular" game. It makes me sad to hear of things like this, the NS community is the best i've ever known and that includes real life.
  • ArkantiArkanti pub baddie Join Date: 2011-07-22 Member: 111781Members, NS2 Playtester, Squad Five Blue, Reinforced - Shadow
    <!--quoteo(post=1926258:date=Apr 17 2012, 04:21 PM:name=Drakennz)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Drakennz @ Apr 17 2012, 04:21 PM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1926258"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->Yeah i havent had any experience with this yet but i do think there is a cloud of 12 year old console gamers who have not played ns1 or dont understand that NS is an artform of a game and you rarely come across flamers or people hating because your new. The reason i love NS is mostly because of the community - everyone is so helpful and kind - you dont get this in COD or any other "popular" game. It makes me sad to hear of things like this, the NS community is the best i've ever known and that includes real life.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

    One sign of this is that the competitive community is primarily made up of people 20 and older. I don't actually know of any teens in the scene.
  • sickboysickboy Join Date: 2003-09-13 Member: 20804Members, Constellation
    edited April 2012
    It's a few bad experiences compared to a crapload of great ones. While a bad experience can really taint your feelings towards the game as a whole, just try to remember that not everyone is like that. I try to remember the names of people I consistently butt heads with and will either not join a game if they're in it, or I'll leave if they join mine. Kinda kills some of my play time right now, but it's better than getting angry and quitting the game entirely. It only takes 2 active servers to have another place to go to get away from someone being a turd.

    Also, I'd say the vast majority of this community rocks. This is no MOBA game where your team hates you more than the enemy, and constantly tells you so (thank goodness).
  • xorexxorex Join Date: 2012-03-10 Member: 148550Members, NS2 Map Tester, Reinforced - Shadow
    <!--quoteo(post=1926217:date=Apr 16 2012, 09:39 PM:name=danada)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (danada @ Apr 16 2012, 09:39 PM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1926217"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->I've played NS1 for years, have put in good time with NS2, and today I came across my first negative experience.

    There have been some negative views on towards newcomers, some of which I've shared (people complaining about the game, wanting a refund, etc), but tonight my views towards them kind of changed.

    I'm an OK Marine com, but tonight I was Alien com for the first time. I understand how things work, but I was a bit slow with finding where things were in the interface, and having some trouble with cyst placement (stairs and ramps). Things were going well, I had a few RTs, regen, cara, then someone said to drop the hive. I built a drifter, but before it was finished I was told to "Get the fu-- out" and then was kick/banned from the server.

    This all happened very quickly, and to someone who commed because nobody else did.

    <b>New comms beware.</b> It's better to sit back and lose a match quickly than it is to at least give it a try.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    LOL this is not at all what I heard happened.
  • ZeikkoZeikko Join Date: 2007-12-16 Member: 63179Members, Squad Five Blue, NS2 Map Tester
    edited April 2012
    I have similar experiences as the OP. Commanders get easily flamed, ejected and kickbanned from servers even though the public games are already suffering from lack of commanders.

    The issue is not related to inexperienced commanders only. I have background in playing as commander in competitive teams in NS and NS2 and wouldn't consider myself an inexperienced commander. Still commanding in public games disgusts me because there are often people who focus on flaming the commander instead of actually playing the game.

    Last night i jumped to a public server and decided to comm one round as marines. We did pretty well holding 4 RTs on Tram and destroying 3-4 alien RTs. I went for armor 2 and Shotguns to counter to impending fades. At this point I started receive inflammatory voice comm feedback that about the decision of going to armor 2. I tried to reason him with the fact that fades now need 3 hits to kill you. He wasn't convinced because the enemy didn't still have any fades and they can kill with one hit with the second weapon. Too bad they didn't have second hive coming up either. Anyways the discussion got heated and i just told him to shut up and focus on the game.

    After that I built and ARC train of 8 ARCs or so and tried to kill their only hive. The ARC rush failed because the aliens managed to get one skillful fade up who owned all the people defending the ARCs. I decided to go to the hive with the ARCs anyway because they could not have come back to base safely anymore. Because the enemy had high number of skulks they were able to take down the ARCs fast.

    Simultaneously couple of other players killed the 2nd hive the aliens just built up with the help of nano shield and medpacks by me.

    After this i decided to go for another ARC rush with about 6 ARCs. I tried to group my team up and follow the ARCs. It was impossible at this state of the game because the flame war in our team had destroyed all the teamwork we ever had. The ARCs were escorted by about 3 players that were easily taken down by the aliens. Thus ARCs were lost in vain again.

    After this point i got flamed again for not knowing how to use ARCs and distress beacon and got ejected out of the CC.

    It feels that comm has no authority in NS2 because your players are not really dependent on you like they were in NS.

    Actually i'm not sure if it's the community, the game or just me. But commanding in public is often a disgusting experience.
  • JuCCiJuCCi Join Date: 2011-08-08 Member: 114961Members, NS2 Map Tester
    Im the leader of All-In. I will look into this more. I'll get back to you later in the day. Thanks for making a post.

    One thing i can recommend is we had a "Noobs learn here server" my goal for that server is for new people to play and learn, no kicks and bans will happen due to bad skills. The other server are for people that have more understanding.

    Thanks.
    All-In | JuCCi
  • XariusXarius Join Date: 2003-12-21 Member: 24630Members, Reinforced - Supporter
    Sorry to hear, unfortunately there's always going to be a few bad apples in every gaming community, though personally I'm of the opinion the NS community is incredibly friendly and helpful. (Being a small community for a niche game helps) I remember my first times comming on both sides, fortunately I had commed in NS 1 so marine comm wasn't too difficult to get a hang of again. Alien comm is generally easier too, and you're less likely to run into players complaining about you on that side. (Since marine players rely heavier on you)

    Don't give up just yet, just keep jumping in that comm chair, tell your marines to be patient with you because you're new (most will then try to help you and give advice) and I'm sure you're going to end up having a blast as a comm.
  • Soul_RiderSoul_Rider Mod Bean Join Date: 2004-06-19 Member: 29388Members, Constellation, Squad Five Blue
    I was alien comm for a long time, even comming in gathers. Eventually after getting flamed and insulted 3 games in a row on servers because my alien team were losing and it was all my fault, (nothing to do with the fact they couldn't hold an RT, let alone a hive room), I quit comm.

    I am not going to play comm again in NS2 either. I'm not a great comm, but I'm not new to comming either, my gather record as alien comm was 8 wins and 2 losses, which isn't bad, and yet on pubs, when the alien team lacks teamwork and the ability to carry out the basic elements of the game, they will not accept responsibility and pass the blame. I can't be bothered with the hassle anymore.

    I have no idea how this problem can be solved, or even mitigated. I do however feel NS2 is going to lose a lot of potentially brilliant comms due to this kind of reaction. I was never potentially brilliant, only potentially average, so I'm not a big loss, but how many big losses could there be? Hurting NS2 in general and the comp/organised scenes even harder.
  • Master BlasterMaster Blaster Join Date: 2012-03-17 Member: 148908Banned
    edited April 2012
    <u></u><!--quoteo(post=1926356:date=Apr 17 2012, 06:37 AM:name=Soul_Rider)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Soul_Rider @ Apr 17 2012, 06:37 AM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1926356"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->I was alien comm for a long time, even comming in gathers. Eventually after getting flamed and insulted 3 games in a row on servers because my alien team were losing and it was all my fault, (nothing to do with the fact they couldn't hold an RT, let alone a hive room), I quit comm.

    I am not going to play comm again in NS2 either. I'm not a great comm, but I'm not new to comming either, my gather record as alien comm was 8 wins and 2 losses, which isn't bad, and yet on pubs, when the alien team lacks teamwork and the ability to carry out the basic elements of the game, they will not accept responsibility and pass the blame. I can't be bothered with the hassle anymore.

    I have no idea how this problem can be solved, or even mitigated. I do however feel NS2 is going to lose a lot of potentially brilliant comms due to this kind of reaction. I was never potentially brilliant, only potentially average, so I'm not a big loss, but how many big losses could there be? Hurting NS2 in general and the comp/organised scenes even harder.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->


    After our original commander crashed out of the game, we were about to lose. I jumped in the command hive, and for getting 4 hives and all resource towers on the map and maintaining them for<i><b> over 1 hour</b></i>, I was called a "******* retard" several times for saying that the team should end the game or server would crash. No, I did not call anyone a "noob" until after this comment was made towards me. I was quite polite in fact.

    I will still comm probably but yea, certain 12 year olds need to have their keyboards and mics taken away.

    EDIT: I want to add that All-In has great servers and I like the players there. For example, Jucci and I have had disagreements about my commanding but nothing to what the OP is suggesting. It was all very polite and cordial, and we get along just fine. So this might be just an accident because as far as I have seen All-In is very receptive and are generally good people.

    The best thing you can do as an experienced commander who knows how to command is to be diplomatic and politely and calmly explain the situation to the team. If they still call you a "******* retard" then they're just ruining Natural Selection and stopping people from buying the game.

    In effect, THEY ARE HURTING SALES.
  • IndustryIndustry Esteemed Gentleman Join Date: 2010-07-13 Member: 72344Members, Reinforced - Shadow, WC 2013 - Supporter
    That's unfortunate. I comm a fair amount on both sides and rarely get anyone who gets angry at me when I screw up (which is a lot). There are some bad apples out there but don't give up on comming. I find it incredibly fun and rewarding even when I lose.
  • XariusXarius Join Date: 2003-12-21 Member: 24630Members, Reinforced - Supporter
    I do sometimes get players complaining about not having upgrades or weapon X or Y as a marine comm, trying to blame me for it when we only have 1 - 2 RTs. At times like that you just have to explain them why you can't get the upgrades they want, communication is key. Same thing with marines spamming 'orders' at a res node, totally oblivious to the fact that you dont have enough t.res.
  • Master BlasterMaster Blaster Join Date: 2012-03-17 Member: 148908Banned
    <!--quoteo(post=1926369:date=Apr 17 2012, 07:06 AM:name=Xarius)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Xarius @ Apr 17 2012, 07:06 AM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1926369"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->I do sometimes get players complaining about not having upgrades or weapon X or Y as a marine comm, trying to blame me for it when we only have 1 - 2 RTs. At times like that you just have to explain them why you can't get the upgrades they want, communication is key. Same thing with marines spamming 'orders' at a res node, totally oblivious to the fact that you dont have enough t.res.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

    I've gotten requests for jetpacks/flamethrowers 3 minutes into the game with 1 resource tower. I think they were actually serious.

    "If we had grenade launchers it would be easy to build our first resource tower."
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