Well, for me, "the dad" is a 6 foot tall really muscular Italian guy with a really thick mustache and obsessively groomed hair. He dresses extremely neat and wears suits most of the time I've seen him, cause he's a work-a-holic.
On the contrary, I have a full beard and a shock of hippie hair. I dress in all manner of punk or whatever you want to call it clothing - dickies, Misfits t-shirts, lots of bracelets, Etnies shoes, yada yada. We aren't exactly two of a kind, you see. It wasn't all <i>that</i> bad, but he's a pretty intimidating dude.
<!--QuoteBegin-Quaunaut+Jun 26 2004, 08:50 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Quaunaut @ Jun 26 2004, 08:50 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <span style='color:red'>Edit:</span>If I wrote her(while she's in Utah now- waaah) a e-mail, telling her how I feel about her, around her, and when I think about her, telling her my true feelings instead of hiding them- would that be a smart idea? Note that I have a good vocabulary and grammar, so it wouldn't be full of tons of the stupid AOLer stuff that I'm sure would knock the romance clean off. Would she appreciate that? Or would it be the worst move I could possibly make, or whatever in between? I want some woman intuition here- I'd appreciate it. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Although I can't offer any woman intuition on this, I would like to offer some insight.
First, there can't be much bad about sending her an email, other than if she does like you too, she might have rather you said everything in person. I'm sure she would understand why, I mean I totally understand if you needed to send her an email so you could say how you felt without being completely nervous, though even that will still be there when thinking what to say.
Though I would advise you to try and do things in person whenever possible. I broke up with a girl over the phone, for various reasons, and hear nothing but a blood curtling scream, and a "click!". About 5 minutes later my very good friend who hooked us up, called me back and asked WTH did I say to her. Apparently she had quarterbacked the cellphone into her eye leaving it nice and black. Obviously I wouldnt have wanted this to happen to me if I did it in person, but I would rather it would have been my eye than hers because she didn't deserve it. Well, besides hooking me up with a girl who is going to go insane if you break up with her. I know this doesnt apply much to your situation, but, remember to try and do things in person whenever you can. She will appreciate it greatly.
<!--QuoteBegin-Duff-Man+Jun 28 2004, 04:53 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Duff-Man @ Jun 28 2004, 04:53 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Well, for me, "the dad" is a 6 foot tall really muscular Italian guy with a really thick mustache and obsessively groomed hair. He dresses extremely neat and wears suits most of the time I've seen him, cause he's a work-a-holic. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Heh, "work-a-holic".
Watch out for those "work-a-holic"s. The don't take kindly to people messin' up their daughters.
Now replace "work-a-holic" with "in the mafia". <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Zig...I am Captain Planet!Join Date: 2002-10-23Member: 1576Members
you're just crazy bout the new emote aren't ya o_O <!--emo&::tsa::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tsa.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tsa.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Watch out for those "work-a-holic"s. The don't take kindly to people messin' up their daughters.
Now replace "work-a-holic" with "in the mafia". <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
<!--emo&::tsa::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tsa.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tsa.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--emo&::tsa::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tsa.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tsa.gif' /><!--endemo--><!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> He talks like it, too. Eek.
QuaunautThe longest seven days in history...Join Date: 2003-03-21Member: 14759Members, Constellation, Reinforced - Shadow
Well, I haven't even met mine, but I already know- he's dominated by the Missus. She controls him totally, and she's the man of the house. And she's mean, emotionally abusive to my hopeful, and frankly, if she was a man, I would have castrated her by now whether I liked this girl or not.
You can castrate females.. it just usually makes them a bit meaner... so that probably isn't a good idea. Silly testosterone (sp?). <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
<!--QuoteBegin-Quaunaut+Jun 28 2004, 07:07 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Quaunaut @ Jun 28 2004, 07:07 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> if she was a man, <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> if she were a man, you mean <!--emo&::nerdy::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/nerd.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='nerd.gif' /><!--endemo-->
I don't recommend telling her how you feel just yet, doing so is sometimes an immediate turnoff. Instead, you should get her into a conversation where you make her admit it. That provides for some greatness.
<!--QuoteBegin-Quaunaut+Jun 28 2004, 09:08 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Quaunaut @ Jun 28 2004, 09:08 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Well, here's another question, spawned of that: What do I do if she doesn't like me? Keep telling her? Don't tell her? WTHh4x? <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Doubt is the last thing you want on your mind. Use any means nessesary to distract your brain away from being doubtful.
If she doesn't like you, that's exactly why you shouldn't come off too strongly. From what it seems though, she does enjoy being with you so you should be good.
But whatever you do, don't keep telling her you're crazy about her. (hint: the movies lie, if you do that the girls tend to get a restraining order on you/scared of you/annoyed, etc)
But if you really really really need to tell her, as in if you don't you're going to die, then you gotta do what you gotta do to stay alive. Try not to overkill, you can scare those girls away sometimes. Remember your two friends...learn from their mistakes... (geez I could have used that advice in my own life...sigh)
QuaunautThe longest seven days in history...Join Date: 2003-03-21Member: 14759Members, Constellation, Reinforced - Shadow
<!--QuoteBegin-zooby+Jun 28 2004, 07:34 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (zooby @ Jun 28 2004, 07:34 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> If she doesn't like you, that's exactly why you shouldn't come off too strongly. From what it seems though, she does enjoy being with you so you should be good.
But whatever you do, don't keep telling her you're crazy about her. (hint: the movies lie, if you do that the girls tend to get a restraining order on you/scared of you/annoyed, etc)
But if you really really really need to tell her, as in if you don't you're going to die, then you gotta do what you gotta do to stay alive. Try not to overkill, you can scare those girls away sometimes. Remember your two friends...learn from their mistakes... (geez I could have used that advice in my own life...sigh)
Good luck <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Thats just it- their "Mistakes" were after-the-fact or a "Just isn't happening"(#1 for former, #2 for latter).
In case she doesn't like you - I would say don't tell her, because it's stress on her mind, especially if you're such good friends. If you really must, just .. try and make it sound a bit casual, like it's not that big a deal that it didn't happen, something like that... just so you and her both know, but not enough that she'll feel horrible about it.
You guys are all wrong, best way to get a girl is to simply set thier m_pBoyFriend pointer on their instance of CPerson to your instance of pPerson, then set the m_iBase to whatever you feel most confortable with.
Its easy.
<!--c1--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>CODE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='CODE'><!--ec1-->CPerson *pMe = GetPersonPointer( YOU ); CPerson *pHer = GetPersonPointer ( HER );
if(pMe && pHer) { pHer->m_pBoyFriend = pMe; pHer->m_iBase = 1;//numbers are 0 - > 5 (5 being home, setting this to 0 will cause m_pBoyFriend to be set to null next frame) } <!--c2--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--ec2-->
If she is as special as you say she is, if you to get on as well as you think, then it won't affect anything if she doesn't like you back in the way you like her.
Whatever happens you have to let her know otherwise you'll be kicking yourself for missing a possible opportunity. At least that way you get it off your chest and it is more than possible to be friends with someone who fancies you (or the other way around).
As was said earlier though, if you get a no don't keep going back and hoping for a yes, just accept it. I promise you that if you just treat her like a friend you will eventually lose those feelings for her and you'll just end up really close mates and it is much better to have a good friend than have a friend you feel awkward around.
<!--QuoteBegin-voogru+Jun 29 2004, 06:09 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (voogru @ Jun 29 2004, 06:09 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> You guys are all wrong, best way to get a girl is to simply set thier m_pBoyFriend pointer on their instance of CPerson to your instance of pPerson, then set the m_iBase to whatever you feel most confortable with.
Its easy.
<!--c1--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>CODE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='CODE'><!--ec1-->CPerson *pMe = GetPersonPointer( YOU ); CPerson *pHer = GetPersonPointer ( HER );
if(pMe && pHer) { pHer->m_pBoyFriend = pMe; pHer->m_iBase = 1;//numbers are 0 - > 5 (5 being home, setting this to 0 will cause m_pBoyFriend to be set to null next frame) } <!--c2--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--ec2-->
Thats all there is to it! <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Finally in language everyone can understand!!!11
QuaunautThe longest seven days in history...Join Date: 2003-03-21Member: 14759Members, Constellation, Reinforced - Shadow
Not that I don't value your opinion Athena- it sure as hell is worth it(most of the stuff you said earlier I am going to follow to a T), this I'm gonna have to go with CMeast on...I'm just the kind of guy who would be kicking myself for not doing it.
Zig...I am Captain Planet!Join Date: 2002-10-23Member: 1576Members
i'm behind quaunaut on this one.. Q, obviously you haven't had this situation too many times before in yer life. whatever you do now will contribute to your experience and subsequently supplement your knowledge of relationships and interpersonal activity.
even if it doesn't work out with this dream girl, you'll have experience for the future. i say go ahead and tell her how you feel. if she doesn't like it, then it's her loss - you're obviously prepared to be a devoted friend and companion (although maybe not a lover... but we could definitely help you out there too).
ultimately, this comes down to what YOU want and how to go about getting it. if you feel in your heart that you MUST tell this girl how you feel, then <b>do it.</b>
and if you take all our advice and everything goes well, you're required by NS.org forum law to submit a picture of her.
That_Annoying_KidSire of TitlesJoin Date: 2003-03-01Member: 14175Members, Constellation
edited June 2004
<!--QuoteBegin-Blobby+Jun 25 2004, 01:40 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Blobby @ Jun 25 2004, 01:40 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Dude, if you want a woman you've gotta work for it, not pray for it! <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> ^^
Quan I'm sure you will do fine
NOW ALL WE NEED IS PICTURE!
[edit] Why not stop trying to date her, and start just spending time with her...
Try holding off on the confession of love and such until you know she is into you, youdon't want to scare her off. [/edit]
<!--QuoteBegin-Quaunaut+Jun 29 2004, 08:45 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Quaunaut @ Jun 29 2004, 08:45 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Not that I don't value your opinion Athena- it sure as hell is worth it(most of the stuff you said earlier I am going to follow to a T), this I'm gonna have to go with CMeast on...I'm just the kind of guy who would be kicking myself for not doing it. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> I win <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Well, Quaunaut wins actually but either way's cool <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->.
An update on my love life... I now have to decide between Anna, Laura, Karin, Charlotte, Amanda and... well I wont go into details.
I also have to avoid my stalkers, Clare, Rhea, Sam and Sophie. Especially the last two as Sam was a drunken mistake and sophie looks like Jabba the Hut... I was simply nice to her for Fluff's Sake! Since when does that mean I fancy her? Scary girls. Oh and I have to explain to all my mates that I really didn't do anything with clare, she's making it all up...
Girls are scary things! Fun though.
Not even gonna list some of the others things happening in my love life, lets just say its amazing how tired you can get of being jumped on by horny girls that you just thought were friends! It's cool though.
Gonna delay my decisions till the 15 when I get back from holiday, getting a GF before I head will completely ruin half the fun (I don't cheat, can't stand people who do).
<!--QuoteBegin-Athena+Jun 29 2004, 03:06 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Athena @ Jun 29 2004, 03:06 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> In case she doesn't like you - I would say don't tell her, because it's stress on her mind, especially if you're such good friends. If you really must, just .. try and make it sound a bit casual, like it's not that big a deal that it didn't happen, something like that... just so you and her both know, but not enough that she'll feel horrible about it. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> I don't know. I've had kind of crappy experiences with that approach - if noone takes the iniative, nothing ever really happens <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Also, getting that very speech didn't feel like it made me that much of a nicer person. "Yeah, I know how to piece what you're saying together with the way you look at me. Let me pretend I'm not hurting your feelings." Although most people don't actually have that much of an interest in just staying friends (beyond just staying near), regardless of what they say - if you were really going to stay friends for a while, the "not gonna happen" bit has to be spoken out loud someday. It builds a kind of mistrust otherwise, which isn't conducive to friendship at all.
Extremely awkward as it may be, if she's really not supposed to feel horrible about it, it should just be gotten out of the way at some point. <b>Disclaimer</b> : I'm horrible at relationships. This "advice" is from any objective perspective entirely worthless. So you probably want to go with Athenas approach.
<!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->Gonna delay my decisions till the 15 when I get back from holiday, getting a GF before I head will completely ruin half the fun (I don't cheat, can't stand people who do).<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
And I'm sure horny partygirls nevar would either. <!--emo&???--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/confused.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='confused.gif' /><!--endemo-->
<!--QuoteBegin-CMEast+Jun 30 2004, 07:21 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (CMEast @ Jun 30 2004, 07:21 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Not even gonna list some of the others things happening in my love life, lets just say its amazing how tired you can get of being jumped on by horny girls that you just thought were friends! It's cool though. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> It's funny how you have the exact opposite problem of most men....b***ard <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
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On the contrary, I have a full beard and a shock of hippie hair. I dress in all manner of punk or whatever you want to call it clothing - dickies, Misfits t-shirts, lots of bracelets, Etnies shoes, yada yada. We aren't exactly two of a kind, you see. It wasn't all <i>that</i> bad, but he's a pretty intimidating dude.
Although I can't offer any woman intuition on this, I would like to offer some insight.
First, there can't be much bad about sending her an email, other than if she does like you too, she might have rather you said everything in person. I'm sure she would understand why, I mean I totally understand if you needed to send her an email so you could say how you felt without being completely nervous, though even that will still be there when thinking what to say.
Though I would advise you to try and do things in person whenever possible. I broke up with a girl over the phone, for various reasons, and hear nothing but a blood curtling scream, and a "click!". About 5 minutes later my very good friend who hooked us up, called me back and asked WTH did I say to her. Apparently she had quarterbacked the cellphone into her eye leaving it nice and black. Obviously I wouldnt have wanted this to happen to me if I did it in person, but I would rather it would have been my eye than hers because she didn't deserve it. Well, besides hooking me up with a girl who is going to go insane if you break up with her. I know this doesnt apply much to your situation, but, remember to try and do things in person whenever you can. She will appreciate it greatly.
Heh, "work-a-holic".
Watch out for those "work-a-holic"s. The don't take kindly to people messin' up their daughters.
Now replace "work-a-holic" with "in the mafia". <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
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Watch out for those "work-a-holic"s. The don't take kindly to people messin' up their daughters.
Now replace "work-a-holic" with "in the mafia". <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
<!--emo&::tsa::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tsa.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tsa.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--emo&::tsa::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tsa.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tsa.gif' /><!--endemo--><!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
He talks like it, too. Eek.
<!--emo&::tsa::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tsa.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tsa.gif' /><!--endemo-->
if she were a man, you mean <!--emo&::nerdy::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/nerd.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='nerd.gif' /><!--endemo-->
I don't recommend telling her how you feel just yet, doing so is sometimes an immediate turnoff. Instead, you should get her into a conversation where you make her admit it. That provides for some greatness.
Just my $0.02
Doubt is the last thing you want on your mind. Use any means nessesary to distract your brain away from being doubtful.
But whatever you do, don't keep telling her you're crazy about her. (hint: the movies lie, if you do that the girls tend to get a restraining order on you/scared of you/annoyed, etc)
But if you really really really need to tell her, as in if you don't you're going to die, then you gotta do what you gotta do to stay alive. Try not to overkill, you can scare those girls away sometimes. Remember your two friends...learn from their mistakes... (geez I could have used that advice in my own life...sigh)
Good luck
But whatever you do, don't keep telling her you're crazy about her. (hint: the movies lie, if you do that the girls tend to get a restraining order on you/scared of you/annoyed, etc)
But if you really really really need to tell her, as in if you don't you're going to die, then you gotta do what you gotta do to stay alive. Try not to overkill, you can scare those girls away sometimes. Remember your two friends...learn from their mistakes... (geez I could have used that advice in my own life...sigh)
Good luck <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Thats just it- their "Mistakes" were after-the-fact or a "Just isn't happening"(#1 for former, #2 for latter).
So learning from their mistakes isn't happening.
*shifty eyes*
no....
<!--emo&::tsa::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tsa.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tsa.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--emo&::tsa::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tsa.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tsa.gif' /><!--endemo-->
damn
Actually, this is just a bump. Can't have this hot topic off the front page, now can we?
Its easy.
<!--c1--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>CODE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='CODE'><!--ec1-->CPerson *pMe = GetPersonPointer( YOU );
CPerson *pHer = GetPersonPointer ( HER );
if(pMe && pHer)
{
pHer->m_pBoyFriend = pMe;
pHer->m_iBase = 1;//numbers are 0 - > 5 (5 being home, setting this to 0 will cause m_pBoyFriend to be set to null next frame)
}
<!--c2--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--ec2-->
Thats all there is to it!
Whatever happens you have to let her know otherwise you'll be kicking yourself for missing a possible opportunity. At least that way you get it off your chest and it is more than possible to be friends with someone who fancies you (or the other way around).
As was said earlier though, if you get a no don't keep going back and hoping for a yes, just accept it. I promise you that if you just treat her like a friend you will eventually lose those feelings for her and you'll just end up really close mates and it is much better to have a good friend than have a friend you feel awkward around.
Its easy.
<!--c1--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>CODE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='CODE'><!--ec1-->CPerson *pMe = GetPersonPointer( YOU );
CPerson *pHer = GetPersonPointer ( HER );
if(pMe && pHer)
{
pHer->m_pBoyFriend = pMe;
pHer->m_iBase = 1;//numbers are 0 - > 5 (5 being home, setting this to 0 will cause m_pBoyFriend to be set to null next frame)
}
<!--c2--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--ec2-->
Thats all there is to it! <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Finally in language everyone can understand!!!11
even if it doesn't work out with this dream girl, you'll have experience for the future. i say go ahead and tell her how you feel. if she doesn't like it, then it's her loss - you're obviously prepared to be a devoted friend and companion (although maybe not a lover... but we could definitely help you out there too).
ultimately, this comes down to what YOU want and how to go about getting it. if you feel in your heart that you MUST tell this girl how you feel, then <b>do it.</b>
and if you take all our advice and everything goes well, you're required by NS.org forum law to submit a picture of her.
But see, I've got PLENTY of experience in the Confession of love thing- its just none of them have worked. At all. So....skay-rewed.
^^
Quan I'm sure you will do fine
NOW ALL WE NEED IS PICTURE!
[edit]
Why not stop trying to date her, and start just spending time with her...
Try holding off on the confession of love and such until you know she is into you, youdon't want to scare her off.
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pictures would still be cool
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I win <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Well, Quaunaut wins actually but either way's cool <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->.
An update on my love life... I now have to decide between Anna, Laura, Karin, Charlotte, Amanda and... well I wont go into details.
I also have to avoid my stalkers, Clare, Rhea, Sam and Sophie. Especially the last two as Sam was a drunken mistake and sophie looks like Jabba the Hut... I was simply nice to her for Fluff's Sake! Since when does that mean I fancy her? Scary girls. Oh and I have to explain to all my mates that I really didn't do anything with clare, she's making it all up...
Girls are scary things! Fun though.
Not even gonna list some of the others things happening in my love life, lets just say its amazing how tired you can get of being jumped on by horny girls that you just thought were friends! It's cool though.
Gonna delay my decisions till the 15 when I get back from holiday, getting a GF before I head will completely ruin half the fun (I don't cheat, can't stand people who do).
I don't know. I've had kind of crappy experiences with that approach - if noone takes the iniative, nothing ever really happens <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Also, getting that very speech didn't feel like it made me that much of a nicer person. "Yeah, I know how to piece what you're saying together with the way you look at me. Let me pretend I'm not hurting your feelings." Although most people don't actually have that much of an interest in just staying friends (beyond just staying near), regardless of what they say - if you were really going to stay friends for a while, the "not gonna happen" bit has to be spoken out loud someday. It builds a kind of mistrust otherwise, which isn't conducive to friendship at all.
Extremely awkward as it may be, if she's really not supposed to feel horrible about it, it should just be gotten out of the way at some point. <b>Disclaimer</b> : I'm horrible at relationships. This "advice" is from any objective perspective entirely worthless. So you probably want to go with Athenas approach.
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And I'm sure horny partygirls nevar would either. <!--emo&???--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/confused.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='confused.gif' /><!--endemo-->
It's funny how you have the exact opposite problem of most men....b***ard <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
*shifty eyes*
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