Conformity

BlobbyBlobby Join Date: 2004-06-11 Member: 29234Members
<div class="IPBDescription">stupid herding</div> Just saw a poster that reads, "Conformity -- Proudly serving painfully boring people since time began." Behind the text is a picture of a croud of people from the 40s. They're all wearing relatively the same cloths.

Got me thinking about there are just as many stupid people as there have always been... only now they're allowed to think for themselves and make choices (see: Jerry Springer's show for examples).

Wasn't a complete thought... that's all I've got... discuss.
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  • NumbersNotFoundNumbersNotFound Join Date: 2002-11-07 Member: 7556Members
    "I'm gonna be such a non-conformist that i'm going to non-conform to you non-conformists."
  • ConfuzorConfuzor Join Date: 2002-11-01 Member: 2412Awaiting Authorization
    <!--QuoteBegin-404NotFound+Aug 10 2004, 05:25 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (404NotFound @ Aug 10 2004, 05:25 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> "I'm gonna be such a non-conformist that i'm going to non-conform to you non-conformists." <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Reverse psychology strikes again!
  • esunaesuna Rock Bottom Join Date: 2003-04-03 Member: 15175Members, Constellation
    edited August 2004
    <!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->Just saw a poster that reads, "Conformity -- Proudly serving painfully boring people since time began." Behind the text is a picture of a croud of people from the 40s. They're all wearing relatively the same cloths.<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Well give that it was the 40's, there's a chance that because of the war more extravagant cloths were not available (Such as silk wasn't), so the choice of cloths for tailors would have been rather limited.

    <!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->Got me thinking about there are just as many stupid people as there have always been... only now they're allowed to think for themselves and make choices (see: Jerry Springer's show for examples).<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Stupid people have always had the same right to infect others with their stupidity then just as they do now.

    <!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->Wasn't a complete thought... <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    I can tell.

    <!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->that's all I've got...<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Please, don't go out of your way to indulge us with details, more of your incomplete thoughts and such.

    <!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->discuss.<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Discuss what, exactly?
  • antifreezeantifreeze The guy with the goods&#33; Join Date: 2003-05-12 Member: 16232Members, Constellation
    <!--QuoteBegin-404NotFound+Aug 11 2004, 02:25 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (404NotFound @ Aug 11 2004, 02:25 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> "I'm gonna be such a non-conformist that i'm going to non-conform to you non-conformists." <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Stop talking you make my brain hurt <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • NumbersNotFoundNumbersNotFound Join Date: 2002-11-07 Member: 7556Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-antifreeze+Aug 10 2004, 08:45 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (antifreeze @ Aug 10 2004, 08:45 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-404NotFound+Aug 11 2004, 02:25 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (404NotFound @ Aug 11 2004, 02:25 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> "I'm gonna be such a non-conformist that i'm going to non-conform to you non-conformists." <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Stop talking you make my brain hurt <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    It's from the South Park episode where they ask the goth kids to help them in a dance competition. The one kid, after hearing all his goth buddies say they won't, actually does help them, because by doing so he is being a non-conformist among his non-conformist buddies.
  • ArawnArawn Join Date: 2003-02-01 Member: 12954Members
    edited August 2004
    If you are part of a group (non-conformists) it means that you are conforming to some ideology which makes it possible for you (and others like you) to be stereotyped as such. Non-conformity is a crock, people like that need to just shut up and dress normally, behave normally, and most importantly: NOT DYE THEIR HAIR.

    Edit: Also, this topic belongs in 'Discussion' not 'Off-Topic'.
  • ZigZig ...I am Captain Planet&#33; Join Date: 2002-10-23 Member: 1576Members
    what's wrong with hair dye?
  • ArawnArawn Join Date: 2003-02-01 Member: 12954Members
    Goths are the ones who usually do it, if you're not a goth I'm not going to complain about it. It just bugs me because what on earth is wrong with people's natural hair color? Jeez, just leave it alone.
  • NumbersNotFoundNumbersNotFound Join Date: 2002-11-07 Member: 7556Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-Arawn+Aug 10 2004, 09:10 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Arawn @ Aug 10 2004, 09:10 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Goths are the ones who usually do it, if you're not a goth I'm not going to complain about it. It just bugs me because what on earth is wrong with people's natural hair color? Jeez, just leave it alone. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Oh noes! they're changing nature! They're playing God! Call people who care!
  • ArawnArawn Join Date: 2003-02-01 Member: 12954Members
    edited August 2004
    Uh, I could give a crap about people paving the rain forests, I don't believe in God at all, and I wasn't expecting -you- to care. Looks like you read a little too deeply into that post...I just don't like goths, they seem to think its necessary to dye their hair. For someone who is 16 and in college it seems you still have a ways to go.
  • ZeroByteZeroByte Join Date: 2002-11-01 Member: 3057Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-Arawn+Aug 11 2004, 10:10 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Arawn @ Aug 11 2004, 10:10 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Goths are the ones who usually do it, if you're not a goth I'm not going to complain about it. It just bugs me because what on earth is wrong with people's natural hair color? Jeez, just leave it alone. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    I used to think the same way, but meh, I got over it. It adds variety to life n stuff. And it's really not worth it getting annoyed at those people. The people that you should use your energy being annoyed with are people who are annoyingly stupid. Hmm.. there may be some circular logic there.
  • X_StickmanX_Stickman Not good enough for a custom title. Join Date: 2003-04-15 Member: 15533Members, Constellation
    No one can fully define goth anyway, not even goths. I wear black a lot, my hair is long, and i'm considering dying it black (WOOOO!). Dunno why. I just like black.

    I also like the band Aqua, so i'm really not gothy in any sense of it. I just like black. Probably because i always manage to get my clothes dirty somehow and it doesn't show up as well on black.
  • TequilaTequila Join Date: 2003-08-13 Member: 19660Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-X_Stickman+Aug 11 2004, 03:32 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (X_Stickman @ Aug 11 2004, 03:32 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> I also like the band Aqua <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    <i>Oh dear</i>.
  • X_StickmanX_Stickman Not good enough for a custom title. Join Date: 2003-04-15 Member: 15533Members, Constellation
    If you look on them as a group of friends that don't get easily embarrased and are out to just have fun, they're decent.
  • ZigZig ...I am Captain Planet&#33; Join Date: 2002-10-23 Member: 1576Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-Arawn+Aug 10 2004, 06:10 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Arawn @ Aug 10 2004, 06:10 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Goths are the ones who usually do it, if you're not a goth I'm not going to complain about it. It just bugs me because what on earth is wrong with people's natural hair color? Jeez, just leave it alone. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    nothing's *wrong* with natural hair color.. but it's fun to dye your hair :o
  • UltimaGeckoUltimaGecko hates endnotes Join Date: 2003-05-14 Member: 16320Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-Zig+Aug 10 2004, 09:43 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Zig @ Aug 10 2004, 09:43 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-Arawn+Aug 10 2004, 06:10 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Arawn @ Aug 10 2004, 06:10 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Goths are the ones who usually do it, if you're not a goth I'm not going to complain about it. It just bugs me because what on earth is wrong with people's natural hair color? Jeez, just leave it alone. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    nothing's *wrong* with natural hair color.. but it's fun to dye your hair :o <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Well, I could beg to differ in the fact that my eyebrows are effectively clear (basically white), so they don't really show up in pictures. Maybe I'd want them darker so people could see them. Then again, my hair is basically white if it's shaved to about 1/4 and inch...it just gets blonder and redder as you go.



    Of course, I've never colored my hair and I don't plan to...if only because: who <i>really</i> cares about hair color specifically?
  • ZigZig ...I am Captain Planet&#33; Join Date: 2002-10-23 Member: 1576Members
    i do. i pay a lot of attention to hair.
  • kidakida Join Date: 2003-02-20 Member: 13778Members
    I believe it is possible to be non-conformist in the heart, meaning that you hate society with all your guts and the people of it, therefore making you a lone wolf.
    You could pretend, but really deep down inside you hate every aspect of it and wish to get away from and even yourself.

    I don't think we should judge certain people by what they wear or what ideology they might follow, but rather judge them as human beings.
  • ArawnArawn Join Date: 2003-02-01 Member: 12954Members
    edited August 2004
    <!--QuoteBegin-UltimaGecko+Aug 10 2004, 09:49 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (UltimaGecko @ Aug 10 2004, 09:49 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->Of course, I've never colored my hair and I don't plan to...if only because: who <i>really</i> cares about hair color specifically?<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    That's what I meant.

    Goths are trying to define their roles as human beings by their hair style/color. It's a trivial movement based on aesthetics. That and practically all of them are junkies/depressed losers.
  • CabooseCaboose title = name(self, handle) Join Date: 2003-02-15 Member: 13597Members, Constellation
    <!--QuoteBegin-404NotFound+Aug 10 2004, 07:48 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (404NotFound @ Aug 10 2004, 07:48 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-antifreeze+Aug 10 2004, 08:45 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (antifreeze @ Aug 10 2004, 08:45 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-404NotFound+Aug 11 2004, 02:25 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (404NotFound @ Aug 11 2004, 02:25 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> "I'm gonna be such a non-conformist that i'm going to non-conform to you non-conformists." <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Stop talking you make my brain hurt <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    It's from the South Park episode where they ask the goth kids to help them in a dance competition. The one kid, after hearing all his goth buddies say they won't, actually does help them, because by doing so he is being a non-conformist among his non-conformist buddies. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Ooh, you got served!
  • ZigZig ...I am Captain Planet&#33; Join Date: 2002-10-23 Member: 1576Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-kida+Aug 10 2004, 07:08 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (kida @ Aug 10 2004, 07:08 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> I believe it is possible to be non-conformist in the heart, meaning that you hate society with all your guts and the people of it, therefore making you a lone wolf.
    You could pretend, but really deep down inside you hate every aspect of it and wish to get away from and even yourself.

    I don't think we should judge certain people by what they wear or what ideology they might follow, but rather judge them as human beings. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    there are plenty of people who do that.... XD
  • kidakida Join Date: 2003-02-20 Member: 13778Members
  • Cold_NiTeCold_NiTe Join Date: 2003-09-15 Member: 20875Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-esuna+Aug 10 2004, 08:43 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (esuna @ Aug 10 2004, 08:43 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> ~What he said earlier.~ <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    How do you like your meat flamed? Well done? Alright then. <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • iFireiFire Join Date: 2002-07-31 Member: 1038Members
    I MUST not conform to non-comformity, as people here are minorities. <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • esunaesuna Rock Bottom Join Date: 2003-04-03 Member: 15175Members, Constellation
    edited August 2004
    <!--QuoteBegin-Arawn+Aug 11 2004, 03:31 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Arawn @ Aug 11 2004, 03:31 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-UltimaGecko+Aug 10 2004, 09:49 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (UltimaGecko @ Aug 10 2004, 09:49 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->Of course, I've never colored my hair and I don't plan to...if only because: who <i>really</i> cares about hair color specifically?<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    That's what I meant.

    Goths are trying to define their roles as human beings by their hair style/color. It's a trivial movement based on aesthetics. That and practically all of them are junkies/depressed losers. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    The train to ignorant generalisations has arrived! All aboard! WOO-WOO!
  • CobyCoby Join Date: 2002-11-11 Member: 8210Members
    Oh and let me guess: whoever wears a black leather coat worships satan! Go Arawn!
  • remiremi remedy [blu.knight] Join Date: 2003-11-18 Member: 23112Members, Super Administrators, Forum Admins, NS2 Developer, NS2 Playtester
    <!--QuoteBegin-X_Stickman+Aug 10 2004, 09:32 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (X_Stickman @ Aug 10 2004, 09:32 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> I also like the band Aqua, so i'm really not gothy in any sense of it. I just like black. Probably because i always manage to get my clothes dirty somehow and it doesn't show up as well on black. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Unless you get something white on it <!--emo&:0--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/wow.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wow.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • UltimaGeckoUltimaGecko hates endnotes Join Date: 2003-05-14 Member: 16320Members
    edited August 2004
    <!--QuoteBegin-esuna+Aug 11 2004, 05:43 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (esuna @ Aug 11 2004, 05:43 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-Arawn+Aug 11 2004, 03:31 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Arawn @ Aug 11 2004, 03:31 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-UltimaGecko+Aug 10 2004, 09:49 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (UltimaGecko @ Aug 10 2004, 09:49 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->Of course, I've never colored my hair and I don't plan to...if only because: who <i>really</i> cares about hair color specifically?<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    That's what I meant.

    Goths are trying to define their roles as human beings by their hair style/color. It's a trivial movement based on aesthetics. <b>That and practically all of them are junkies/depressed losers.</b> <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    The train to ignorant generalisations has arrived! All aboard! WOO-WOO! <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Note the qualifier <i>practically</i> in the above sentence.


    There's basically 5 types of goth-esque people:

    The people who are goth but only in a melancholy attitude and not really in physical forms (basically loners).
    The people who dress in freakishly designed outfits in an attempt to be different, but they act like they don't care.
    People who listen to rather outlandish musics and try obscenely different things in an effort to be different.
    The people who dress in black to present a point about society.
    The people who dress in black and are trying not to 'conform'.


    These can all be accompanied by: 1. A spunky attitude; 2. A completely depressed attitude; or 3. An indifferent attitude; or 4. Enjoying the use of drugs to 'escape' society.

    There's also: You're pretty much not a goth if someone else hasn't labelled you as such (you're the only one that doesn't count <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> ) in a serious manner.


    Of course, some people are just bizarre and label anyone who wears black regularily a goth - these people are idiots and should be avoided.


    Of course, you can also be a goth if you:

    were part of one of the many Germanic tribes circulating in ancient times, including Visigoths, Ostrogoths, Goths...you know...Goths; or

    were part of the upper classes of society during the gothic eras during the renaissance.


    Of course...those are kind of different goths.
  • SoulSkorpionSoulSkorpion Join Date: 2002-04-12 Member: 423Members
    Conforming to counter-culture is not non-conformity. In an odd way, deliberately countering mainstream culture in your own way, just to be different, is not non-conformity either (I'm guilty of that).

    Non-conformity is making it up as you go along, rather than taking your cue from somewhere else. It's behaving how you like. That doesn't mean you have to be a [rectum] about it, though.

    The thing about non-conformity is that, ultimately, you have to be yourself. If you have to force it: don't bother with it. That also means that, unfortunately, if you really intend to bend or ignore society's rules about ordinary behaviour, without the safety blanket of precedent, more often than not you're going to come across as an eccentric oddball, and you have to have the courage and self-confidence to pull it off. That's something I'm finally starting to learn...
  • UltimaGeckoUltimaGecko hates endnotes Join Date: 2003-05-14 Member: 16320Members
    edited August 2004
    <!--QuoteBegin-SoulSkorpion+Aug 11 2004, 08:44 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (SoulSkorpion @ Aug 11 2004, 08:44 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->Conforming to counter-culture is not non-conformity. In an odd way, deliberately countering mainstream culture in your own way, just to be different, is not non-conformity either (I'm guilty of that).

    Non-conformity is making it up as you go along, rather than taking your cue from somewhere else. It's behaving how you like. That doesn't mean you have to be a [rectum] about it, though.

    The thing about non-conformity is that, ultimately, you have to be yourself. If you have to force it: don't bother with it. That also means that, unfortunately, if you really intend to bend or ignore society's rules about ordinary behaviour, without the safety blanket of precedent, more often than not you're going to come across as an eccentric oddball, and you have to have the courage and self-confidence to pull it off. That's something I'm finally starting to learn...<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    I'm trying so hard to be myself...is it working?

    IS IT?



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