i had anger management classes a while back(when i was 11)
Not sure if it was those that helpled, or just the fact that i matured, but whatever it was, it stopped me being so likely to lash out at things.
And if it makes you fell any better, i would have refused to make him the spray, then beat him until he cried.
11 is too young tobe playing Cs anyway <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
I've never really been a violent person I just lash out with words if someone pisses me off and it rarely fails =3
Course if someone actually has the nerve to hit me you can forget the no-violence thing right there and then because I WILL bite and I guarantee you there'll be blood =s
That_Annoying_KidSire of TitlesJoin Date: 2003-03-01Member: 14175Members, Constellation
edited January 2005
<!--QuoteBegin-DrSuredeath+Jan 24 2005, 09:04 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (DrSuredeath @ Jan 24 2005, 09:04 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Tell your mother that your brother isn't old enough to play Half-Life and Counter-Strike, a M-Rated game. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> ^^
seriously, I was showing a 13 year old CS at my uncles house and it is *way* to graphically violent, let them be young and innocent whilst they still are >_<
oh caboose, I don't think you need anger managment, you just need to look deep into nature <!--emo&::marine::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/marine.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='marine.gif' /><!--endemo-->
are you still banned?
oh and like marik said, take some initiative and patch that hole it's definetly not that hard and worth it in brownie points
I only get really upset when lots and lots of little things irk me, then I go from cynical to angry to super ****
and gem, I bet I could make you stop biting me with the quickness, take your thumb and find where your jaw curves up to your skull, slide it to the inside about a cm up and then press as hard as you can =3
[edit] oh yeah, forgot to mention clenching the jaw hard [as in biting] only causes to make the above more potent [edit]
MonkfishSonic-boom-inducing buttcheeks of terrifying speed!Join Date: 2003-06-03Member: 16972Members
edited January 2005
I am a really angry person, not the good kind either.The kind which you bottle up then explode when someone or something pisses you off really badly. How do you think I broke my old pc chair? my router wouldn't work so I threw the chair really hard at the wall.
I never feel the need to express anger physically, but the most trivial things always seem to wind me up. Stuff like this:
<!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->How do you think I broke my old pc chair? my router wouldn't work so I threw the chair really hard at the wall.<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> is just silly, though. If I were you, there's only one thing I'd be angry about.
<!--QuoteBegin-Sonic+Jan 25 2005, 06:47 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Sonic @ Jan 25 2005, 06:47 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Your receeding hairline? <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> There are worst things than having no hair..
Alcapwn"War is the science of destruction" - John AbbotJoin Date: 2003-06-21Member: 17590Members
edited January 2005
Ya, i get mad over the littlelest things, but they just **** me off so much.
Like when someone is acting in a way you know is going to get em in trouble.
Example: My mom and dad fight. When my dad walks away my mom almost always says something else to start it again. Im like, "WTH mom why did you say that?" Then shes like shut the **** up. <!--emo&::asrifle::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/asrifle.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='asrifle.gif' /><!--endemo-->
But my life is good, they fight, but they always make-up. hehehehehe. <!--emo&::asrifle::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/asrifle.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='asrifle.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Play a sport. Preferably a contact one - football, lacrosse, etc. Hockey's my sport of choice; it's a great stress reliever. <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Ah I remember slamming a door open in the USA and having a hole in the wall around the knob.... Why aren't they smart enough to do normal, solid walls like we have right here in France?
<!--QuoteBegin-Marik Steele+Jan 24 2005, 11:27 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Marik Steele @ Jan 24 2005, 11:27 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Knowing from personal experience, your mother will be very impressed with your maturity if you offer to go to home depot and pay for the stuff to repair the hole in the drywall. It's cheaper than you think (if I remember correctly, <$50 for a palm-sized hole, if you already have some sandpaper and paint in the same color as the wall), and it makes for a good self-esteem boosting do-it-yourself project. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Or, conversely, it can lead to another, biigger whole in the wall caused by more anger at improperly fixing the first hole <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/biggrin-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin-fix.gif' /><!--endemo--> .
I've found that the anger problem just seems to deteriorate with time. As you grow older, the people around you tend to become more mature (and the younger, pre-teen type people you meet don't know you well enough to start crap that will annoy you). Back in Highschool (okay, only 2 and a half years ago), I'd get in at least 3 fights a year, because (I'd assume) people thought I was easy pickings for being picked on.
...Well, that usually stops when you chase someone down the hall to wail on them for marking you with a permanent marker (which is probably why there was only one 'fight' senior year, which was probably a mistake anyway).
Anyway, no fights, or anything remotely close to a fight in college (plenty of people around to **** you off too, like people shouting at 3 in the morning out in the courtyard). Because people seem to inherently get less violently confrontational with age (or maybe it's intellect...I'm not so sure on that point).
I would actually recommend telling your mom that HL and CS are inteded for an M rated audience (and if your brother is over 18, then he just needs help) - as noted earlier in the thread. You may also wish to discuss maturity with your brother, but usually people take that as hostile, or at least as an insult. Plus it's like a middle school teenage girl's copout of supposed maturity.
<!--QuoteBegin-That Annoying Kid+Jan 25 2005, 12:17 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (That Annoying Kid @ Jan 25 2005, 12:17 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> oh caboose, I don't think you need anger managment, you just need to look deep into nature <!--emo&::marine::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/marine.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='marine.gif' /><!--endemo-->
are you still banned? <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> Oh, I'm trying to get a job, so nature and I had better stay apart for the time being...
Yea, not sure If I'm still banned <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Oh yea, thanks for making me feel like less of an evil person every one! I felt badly after all of this happened.
<!--QuoteBegin-Cereal KillR+Jan 25 2005, 03:06 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Cereal KillR @ Jan 25 2005, 03:06 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Ah I remember slamming a door open in the USA and having a hole in the wall around the knob.... Why aren't they smart enough to do normal, solid walls like we have right here in France? <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Because solid doors hurt more when you slam them in people's faces. Which we tend to do. <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Alcapwn"War is the science of destruction" - John AbbotJoin Date: 2003-06-21Member: 17590Members
<!--QuoteBegin-Sky+Jan 25 2005, 04:37 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Sky @ Jan 25 2005, 04:37 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-Cereal KillR+Jan 25 2005, 03:06 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Cereal KillR @ Jan 25 2005, 03:06 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Ah I remember slamming a door open in the USA and having a hole in the wall around the knob.... Why aren't they smart enough to do normal, solid walls like we have right here in France? <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> Because solid doors hurt more when you slam them in people's faces. Which we tend to do. <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> ROFL nice.
If you're 16 years old or older, and lash out(ie throw/hit/kick stuff) when you get angry, there is a problem. Otherwise I'd just say wait a few years.
Anger stems from lack of control, its a mental reflex. Your anger stems from your mom taking the side of the younger brother, and dismissing what your current activity was not worth the time.
I'm betting, your mom has taken your younger brother's side more often than yours, in any situation. Punching the wall over a CS spray by itsself doesn't make too much sense. HOWEVER, if the frustration is pent up to the point where her siding with him makes you get angry than its understandable.
I would talk to your Mom about it, how she favors him more. Try and do it as calmly, and describe it as objectively as possible.
If this doesn't work, I would recommend counseling (not in a bad way to condesend, but anger can get you in serious trouble).
There are some things worth being angry at, and somethings are not. Its up to you what is worth losing your self-control over, and what to shrug off.
There are 2 kinds of anger I may experience, and i seriously hate both. Both happens at the point where I am totally mad and cannot control myself, and I usually don't lose my temper so easily.
1) I get into a fight and got physical, I even throw stuff around
2) I hate this........I cry. Seriously, I cry badly like a wimpy little girl who lost her ice cream. I cry at my inability to change things, and well......I lose my principles when I cry.
<!--QuoteBegin-WaterBoy+Jan 25 2005, 11:45 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (WaterBoy @ Jan 25 2005, 11:45 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-Sky+Jan 25 2005, 04:37 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Sky @ Jan 25 2005, 04:37 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-Cereal KillR+Jan 25 2005, 03:06 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Cereal KillR @ Jan 25 2005, 03:06 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Ah I remember slamming a door open in the USA and having a hole in the wall around the knob.... Why aren't they smart enough to do normal, solid walls like we have right here in France? <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> Because solid doors hurt more when you slam them in people's faces. Which we tend to do. <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> ROFL nice. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> I'm talking about the walls, not the doors. Apparently, the walls are much more solid right here in France <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> I tossed my Gameboy (classic) oh so many times on my walls and it's not the gameboy that suffered. I can't imagine what would have happenned with those drywalls.
<!--QuoteBegin-Shoebox+Jan 24 2005, 08:17 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Shoebox @ Jan 24 2005, 08:17 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> ya i used to get like that but i couldnt do anything about it because i have 3 older brothers that were way bigger than me. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> u deserve it
<!--QuoteBegin-Testament+Jan 25 2005, 02:20 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Testament @ Jan 25 2005, 02:20 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Hah. Anger is good for you. I'm like that most of the time. I've got a big hole in my wall from kicking my foot into it, and 3 months ago my cat was meowing at me so I threw a knife through mty window in anger. Screaming unintelligbly in fits of rage is a daily thing, and it keeps me from murdering people. Anger is good.
Don't go to anger managment. It's bull. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Maybe you should consider not having a cat if you get angry at it for meowing. o_O
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Not sure if it was those that helpled, or just the fact that i matured, but whatever it was, it stopped me being so likely to lash out at things.
And if it makes you fell any better, i would have refused to make him the spray, then beat him until he cried.
11 is too young tobe playing Cs anyway <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Course if someone actually has the nerve to hit me you can forget the no-violence thing right there and then because I WILL bite and I guarantee you there'll be blood =s
^^
seriously, I was showing a 13 year old CS at my uncles house and it is *way* to graphically violent, let them be young and innocent whilst they still are >_<
oh caboose, I don't think you need anger managment, you just need to look deep into nature <!--emo&::marine::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/marine.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='marine.gif' /><!--endemo-->
are you still banned?
oh and like marik said, take some initiative and patch that hole it's definetly not that hard and worth it in brownie points
I only get really upset when lots and lots of little things irk me, then I go from cynical to angry to super ****
and gem, I bet I could make you stop biting me with the quickness, take your thumb and find where your jaw curves up to your skull, slide it to the inside about a cm up and then press as hard as you can =3
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oh yeah, forgot to mention clenching the jaw hard [as in biting] only causes to make the above more potent
[edit]
<!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->How do you think I broke my old pc chair? my router wouldn't work so I threw the chair really hard at the wall.<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
is just silly, though. If I were you, there's only one thing I'd be angry about.
There are worst things than having no hair..
Don't throw anything at your monitor.
Like when someone is acting in a way you know is going to get em in trouble.
Example: My mom and dad fight. When my dad walks away my mom almost always says something else to start it again. Im like, "WTH mom why did you say that?" Then shes like shut the **** up. <!--emo&::asrifle::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/asrifle.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='asrifle.gif' /><!--endemo-->
But my life is good, they fight, but they always make-up. hehehehehe. <!--emo&::asrifle::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/asrifle.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='asrifle.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Kinky :X
Uh....
Moving swiftly on....
Or, conversely, it can lead to another, biigger whole in the wall caused by more anger at improperly fixing the first hole <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/biggrin-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin-fix.gif' /><!--endemo--> .
I've found that the anger problem just seems to deteriorate with time. As you grow older, the people around you tend to become more mature (and the younger, pre-teen type people you meet don't know you well enough to start crap that will annoy you). Back in Highschool (okay, only 2 and a half years ago), I'd get in at least 3 fights a year, because (I'd assume) people thought I was easy pickings for being picked on.
...Well, that usually stops when you chase someone down the hall to wail on them for marking you with a permanent marker (which is probably why there was only one 'fight' senior year, which was probably a mistake anyway).
Anyway, no fights, or anything remotely close to a fight in college (plenty of people around to **** you off too, like people shouting at 3 in the morning out in the courtyard). Because people seem to inherently get less violently confrontational with age (or maybe it's intellect...I'm not so sure on that point).
I would actually recommend telling your mom that HL and CS are inteded for an M rated audience (and if your brother is over 18, then he just needs help) - as noted earlier in the thread. You may also wish to discuss maturity with your brother, but usually people take that as hostile, or at least as an insult. Plus it's like a middle school teenage girl's copout of supposed maturity.
are you still banned? <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Oh, I'm trying to get a job, so nature and I had better stay apart for the time being...
Yea, not sure If I'm still banned <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Oh yea, thanks for making me feel like less of an evil person every one! I felt badly after all of this happened.
Because solid doors hurt more when you slam them in people's faces. Which we tend to do. <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Because solid doors hurt more when you slam them in people's faces. Which we tend to do. <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
ROFL nice.
I'm betting, your mom has taken your younger brother's side more often than yours, in any situation. Punching the wall over a CS spray by itsself doesn't make too much sense. HOWEVER, if the frustration is pent up to the point where her siding with him makes you get angry than its understandable.
I would talk to your Mom about it, how she favors him more. Try and do it as calmly, and describe it as objectively as possible.
If this doesn't work, I would recommend counseling (not in a bad way to condesend, but anger can get you in serious trouble).
There are some things worth being angry at, and somethings are not. Its up to you what is worth losing your self-control over, and what to shrug off.
1) I get into a fight and got physical, I even throw stuff around
2) I hate this........I cry. Seriously, I cry badly like a wimpy little girl who lost her ice cream. I cry at my inability to change things, and well......I lose my principles when I cry.
Because solid doors hurt more when you slam them in people's faces. Which we tend to do. <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
ROFL nice. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
I'm talking about the walls, not the doors. Apparently, the walls are much more solid right here in France <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
I tossed my Gameboy (classic) oh so many times on my walls and it's not the gameboy that suffered. I can't imagine what would have happenned with those drywalls.
Or fix it and seek councilling. Either way...
u deserve it
Don't go to anger managment. It's bull. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Maybe you should consider not having a cat if you get angry at it for meowing. o_O