ok, so i met my G/F online... not too bad, she lives 30 minutes away...
here's the thing, if your meeting them in person for the first time, and just introducing yourself...
School Setting - ask about classes/test scores/which party she's gunna be at... that kinda thing
NoN-School Setting (Mall)- stores recently visited / recommendations for gifts for your sister/mom (gotta have one of these if your gunna stick it out for a while) / asking about perticular perfume she is wearing (follow her around a bit.. it reminded you of "happiness" <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> )
Non-Mall Setting - uhh, not too great on that part of the world... to me, there is school, the mall, and home... why would i be anywhere else?
ToolTip:
don't talk about computers... my G/F found out that i was a computer nerd about 2 years ago.... (we have been together for 3 1/2 years.....)
But seriously. This is not the place to ask. You're asking how to meat women in a gaming forum? <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> you're assuming people here don't know anything about girls.
and that's offensive. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> lol that in itself is VERY small minded
and damu... he already said his friends were fruity... how they gonna give girl advice... domo pwned my advice.. lol he is right.. just be yourself.. but know what you want <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
and DZ, **** son... just go.. if you swaet about who you are with or theyre sexuality you aint gonna get nobody <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo--> dont worry if they are lookin at the **** in the room... cos all that means is... more for you... <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo-->
DZ, come to the uk... and ill take you out drinkin and we shall meet plenty of lovely english girls for you to kidnap and take home to the us!
also esuna lives near me! so if plan A fails... plan b is right at hand..
EDIT: i just noticed Delarosa put a tootip in.. about meeting girls... del... you are now my new god.
i like to think im fairly perceptive [to a certain extent.. on a horizontal scale, not vertical] of people, so heres a few optional offerings... one thing i suggest you always do, with anything, is challenge ideas, facts, rumours, anything. it validates things, confirms logic, and doesnt spread useless misinformation. [for instance, just the other day i thought about something i had "known" since childhood, then realised that common logic would spit on my assumption's face and call it names... it just made no sense]
so heres a few things
look at how they are talking to you, treating you, et cetera. [e.g: a wife/mother asks her children/husband how their day was... if they ask with interest, chances are they want somebody to ask them how their day was. pay attention and really care]
there are conflicting views on how the conversation/relationship goes - some people say that the people with the best talks are the ones whose bodies and actions mirror their 'partners' - i.e one leans forward, the other leans forward too. talking excitedly, the other person does too. and so you can either lead the other person through changing your manner and they will follow, or you can just follow them and make them feel as though the conversation is going well/better and make them comfortable.
and yet at least one [hehe] person i read their stuff says that the best conversations and relationships are where the two people contrast eachother almost perfectly. i cant write much about this, as the logic offered doesnt make much sense to me. i guess its just a perspective thing, and go with whatever you find works best for you
this has been said over and over and over again, but females really like confidence. they just want a man [bear with me] to take control of the situation and them. im not going to go into it more here, but i believe that to an extent, the basis of any and every human's actions and thoughts are based upon their natural instinct(s)... (primarily, and essentially, for self-survival and promotion of your conditions...)
which follows up on what i said earlier - make the decisions, be an individual and a leader, confident and never faltering. this is important now: when you want a relationship with a girl, dont tell her your weaknesses or vulnerabilities. give her some secrets, so she gets "included", but only stuff like... "i secretly like mandy moore" or other artists she might semi-secretly like too. not like "im terrified of heights" <-- that is not the "deep, artistic guy a gal can fall in love with", that is a wuss! <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> but... secretly liking romance movies and wanting to watch them with her, etc. whatever caters to her needs, but those are pretty much the generic ones that will work 9 times out of ten... works best if you actually mean it <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
now i was going to write more, but i forgot what i was going to say, so ill leave on this note..
remember, this is not TRICKING or DECIEVING the girls. nothing like that at all, you have the wrong mindset if you think that. the truth is, girls are not straight-shooters. they love mind games, they love social complexities and all that. political diplomacy has nothing on the female social situation... so when youre 'playing the game', remember that it is just that. like giving her a backrub, or taking her out to a nice dinner unexpectedly, playing the female game is just showing her that you care enough to make the effort. and by understanding the female mind [well, you dont, but by doing all these things you give out the impression that you do], and by knowing her secrets and tricks, et cetera, it adds to your 'mysterious' side
another good tip is to go out and read all the [legal, of course! oh my heavens, yes] e-books on dating and females that you can. because although, as ive said before, they read mostly like a **** pill ad, they do have some gems of information
i particularly like dale carnegie, although im not sure if his is free or not.. have a look anyway <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
wow eediot, you should publish that, BECAUSE ITS A FRIGGIN NOVEL!!!
jk, arpreciate the time you obviously took <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
<!--QuoteBegin-Swiftspear+Mar 27 2004, 05:46 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Swiftspear @ Mar 27 2004, 05:46 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> I can eat a donut in under 5 seconds, but that's neither this nor that. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> probably best to keep that to yourself <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif' /><!--endemo-->
unless you intend to go after a fat american jenny-craig employee and you want to have competitions <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
<!--QuoteBegin-eediot+Mar 27 2004, 11:49 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (eediot @ Mar 27 2004, 11:49 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-Swiftspear+Mar 27 2004, 05:46 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Swiftspear @ Mar 27 2004, 05:46 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> I can eat a donut in under 5 seconds, but that's neither this nor that. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> probably best to keep that to yourself <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif' /><!--endemo-->
unless you intend to go after a fat american jenny-craig employee and you want to have competitions <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> ROFL
being a skilled eater does not necciarily make you fat. Check out those orential guys, the one guy can eat like 60 hotdogs in less then 15 minutes, he only whieghs like 130 pounds. I can eat a donut in five seconds, but I haven't eaten any donuts in more then 2 weeks.
edit: for a slightly more serious response... true. but my point remains valid
oh and keep it on topic <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif' /><!--endemo-->
another tip
become mates with her friends, if they love you, she will be all over you
My girlfriend made the move on me. <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif' /><!--endemo--> She overheard one day I was talking about this band with a fellow mate of mine, then the same day at the bus stop mentioned that I happen to like the band, and then she asked if I had been at the Tuska festival (where this band performed few months ago) but I wasn't, but told her I had seen the tv clips of the show. Then at the bus I just decided to go and (ask first) sat next to her seat, then she mentioned a concert that was that day, and as soon as I got home, I called my friend and told him we're going there. Then we started to talk more with that girl in irc and msn <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->. Now we've been together for our 5th month <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
<!--QuoteBegin-Swiftspear+Mar 27 2004, 09:49 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Swiftspear @ Mar 27 2004, 09:49 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Bring her home and show her how good you are at NS, surefire attraction! <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Yeah, I get their MSN, and woo them with my Online Checkers skills. No lady can resist a master of teh online checkers.
Coby: you lucky dog ;P yeah an old friend of mine was the one who picked up HER boyfriend too, in a mall... they've been together a couple years now...
Moquiao, eediot, and everyone -- thanks for the advice and pep talks =P there's this bar I really like (they have awesome bands there) that perhaps I should start hanging out in more... malls are a good idea too, I never really thought about them -- I'm a city boy and I always thought of malls as the suburban place to meet people; I don't have one TOO close to me... but maybe I should rethink that and start hitting the malls...
feh, I don't really want to bump this topic, I've probably gotten enough out of it by now <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo--> I'll keep you all posted if I get brave like I should and start meeting people <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
lol DZ nps bro <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> and if you want to talk to me get on msn! cos remember i HATE aim..
<!--QuoteBegin-DiscoZombie+Mar 27 2004, 03:30 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (DiscoZombie @ Mar 27 2004, 03:30 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> yeah. my decision to ask here was an informed one, because this board is impressively mature and from a broad range of walks of life, and most importantly, nice. :> got married people, engaged people, long-term relationship people, mack daddy people, all sortsa people in here... in fact I can't think of ANYONE here who fits the "gamer nerd reject" stereotype... <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> bs im a nerd, look at my pic. im more nerd then all of thouest. ah ha escape! n e n n n e k macho get all cor drop sword sac cor e e w w recall n n w sit sleep quit
ROFL a mudder, awesome! =P I gave up my mud last summer, my ex used to play it with me and when she and I started having problems I didn't want to be in the same MUD anymore =P
wake bs dirty get all cor put all bag rem crown drop crown sac crown sac cor drink jug quaff yellow *your eyes tingle.* c sanc c haste c giant c fly sit sleep quit
wake get barrel back drink barrel drink barrel drink barrel drink barrel c feast c feast c feast eat fruit eat fruit eat fruit stretch yawn stand e s s e e e e n w kill snake kill snake kill rabbit kill bear flee flee flee get all corpse wear all recall quit
And for the advice about meeting girls. I think the type of girls you are going to want to marry are going to be the ones you are already friends with, because.. lets be honest.. might be great to sleep with a wild chick, but when you got to put up with them the rest of your life, you'd rather be with someone you get along with well on a daily basis.
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So for my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you
A pretty woman makes her husband look small And very often causes his downfall As soon as he married her and then she starts To do the things that will break his heart
But if you make an ugly woman your wife A-you'll be happy for the rest of your life An ug-a-ly woman cooks meals on time And she'll always give you peace of mind
Don't let your friends say you have no taste Go ahead and marry anyway Though her face is ugly, her eyes don't match Take it from me, she's a better catch
BizZy_9mm_MessiahOld School MemberJoin Date: 2003-07-25Member: 18411Members, Constellation
Heres a question...What if you like this girl right, but you can't do that sensitive stuff. It's just not me, I couldn't do it for to long. Is there any other way for me to be successful? She's diggin me and I'm diggin her but it's at that point where we are both to shy or nervous about hookin up. When I first met her she was pretty open about personal stuff, and we had laughs, I made a few jokes, the basic flirting scenario. She's crazy shy around other people though. It's just I see all these guys you know holding hands, giving them flowers and stuff, gettin all sensitive and that is definitely not me. Should I just try and play sensitive or be myself?
treat em like crap <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif' /><!--endemo--> well not exactly, i dont mean it literally, but it makes no sense. you treat a woman nice, she thinks youre a spineless wimp, the sensetive side only worked in the 80s, when it was a steep contrast to the "hardcore farm labourer" of the past. so now theyre getting bored, and they want a man to take control and treat them like theyre second-rate. they dont want a guy to be all over them, giving them flowers... save that for a stable relationship <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo--> they want to be able to idolise their man, have him in control and making the decisions and giving off the impression that she is replacable so not to give him ****... blah blah etc etc
so take the initiative, even if its just a facade, go out and put on the man's man persona, and make sure its clear what you expect of her.. sort of.
you'll have to do some creative interpretation of what i was trying to make out above, but i think if you already have a hint of what im trying to get across, you'll understand.
not many profound observations in this post, but hey i can only be perfect 9/10ths of the time <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
treat em like crap <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif' /><!--endemo--> well not exactly, i dont mean it literally, but it makes no sense. you treat a woman nice, she thinks youre a spineless wimp, the sensetive side only worked in the 80s, when it was a steep contrast to the "hardcore farm labourer" of the past. so now theyre getting bored, and they want a man to take control and treat them like theyre second-rate. they dont want a guy to be all over them, giving them flowers... save that for a stable relationship <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo--> they want to be able to idolise their man, have him in control and making the decisions and giving off the impression that she is replacable so not to give him ****... blah blah etc etc
so take the initiative, even if its just a facade, go out and put on the man's man persona, and make sure its clear what you expect of her.. sort of.
you'll have to do some creative interpretation of what i was trying to make out above, but i think if you already have a hint of what im trying to get across, you'll understand.
not many profound observations in this post, but hey i can only be perfect 9/10ths of the time <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> I don't know, my friend said just be yourself because he is just like me, he's not the sensitive kind of guy, and his relationship started off as good to real bad.
girls want a bad boy for a fling, they settle down with the stable guy. you just have to adopt to suit what they want at the time.. youre only going to get girls looking for one thing with a sensitive attitude
BizZy_9mm_MessiahOld School MemberJoin Date: 2003-07-25Member: 18411Members, Constellation
<!--QuoteBegin-eediot+Mar 29 2004, 07:06 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (eediot @ Mar 29 2004, 07:06 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> girls want a bad boy for a fling, they settle down with the stable guy. you just have to adopt to suit what they want at the time.. youre only going to get girls looking for one thing with a sensitive attitude
so start out bad boy, as she changes, you adjust <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Genious. <3 eediot.
I know, I know. I am a Doctor of Love. I mean, how could I not be? I am a Love Doctor! Look at me! <img src='http://www.tomopdam.com/tom_joke2.jpg' border='0' alt='user posted image' />
I have no idea how/if this would apply to human meetups but whatever. Disclaimer: This is a lot of spiritual belief and such. If you don't like it, tough. <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Me and my girlfriend are both 18. We met 20 years ago <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->. We met as wolves obviously, and spent 2 years of our lives together..then we both got shot which sucked.
As for the meeting: Basically when I first saw her, she was lonely, she had no pack to go to, so I let her in mine. I comforted her, helped her.. we quickly became friends.... and eventually..mates <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->. (I'll save the rest of the details, as some people *cough*insane*cough:D* don't like the idea of wolves doing natural things....(disclaimer:<span style='font-size:4pt;line-height:100%'> you are responsible for any and all bad mental images this may produce, you sick minded perverts XD</span>))
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What I meant is there are better places to ask like your friends to mention one.
here's the thing, if your meeting them in person for the first time, and just introducing yourself...
School Setting - ask about classes/test scores/which party she's gunna be at... that kinda thing
NoN-School Setting (Mall)- stores recently visited / recommendations for gifts for your sister/mom (gotta have one of these if your gunna stick it out for a while) / asking about perticular perfume she is wearing (follow her around a bit.. it reminded you of "happiness" <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> )
Non-Mall Setting - uhh, not too great on that part of the world... to me, there is school, the mall, and home... why would i be anywhere else?
ToolTip:
don't talk about computers... my G/F found out that i was a computer nerd about 2 years ago.... (we have been together for 3 1/2 years.....)
But seriously. This is not the place to ask.
You're asking how to meat women in a gaming forum? <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
you're assuming people here don't know anything about girls.
and that's offensive. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
lol that in itself is VERY small minded
and damu... he already said his friends were fruity... how they gonna give girl advice... domo pwned my advice.. lol he is right.. just be yourself.. but know what you want <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
and DZ, **** son... just go.. if you swaet about who you are with or theyre sexuality you aint gonna get nobody <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo--> dont worry if they are lookin at the **** in the room... cos all that means is... more for you... <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo-->
DZ, come to the uk... and ill take you out drinkin and we shall meet plenty of lovely english girls for you to kidnap and take home to the us!
also esuna lives near me! so if plan A fails... plan b is right at hand..
EDIT: i just noticed Delarosa put a tootip in.. about meeting girls... del... you are now my new god.
so heres a few things
look at how they are talking to you, treating you, et cetera. [e.g: a wife/mother asks her children/husband how their day was... if they ask with interest, chances are they want somebody to ask them how their day was. pay attention and really care]
there are conflicting views on how the conversation/relationship goes - some people say that the people with the best talks are the ones whose bodies and actions mirror their 'partners' - i.e one leans forward, the other leans forward too. talking excitedly, the other person does too. and so you can either lead the other person through changing your manner and they will follow, or you can just follow them and make them feel as though the conversation is going well/better and make them comfortable.
and yet at least one [hehe] person i read their stuff says that the best conversations and relationships are where the two people contrast eachother almost perfectly. i cant write much about this, as the logic offered doesnt make much sense to me. i guess its just a perspective thing, and go with whatever you find works best for you
this has been said over and over and over again, but females really like confidence. they just want a man [bear with me] to take control of the situation and them. im not going to go into it more here, but i believe that to an extent, the basis of any and every human's actions and thoughts are based upon their natural instinct(s)... (primarily, and essentially, for self-survival and promotion of your conditions...)
which follows up on what i said earlier - make the decisions, be an individual and a leader, confident and never faltering. this is important now: when you want a relationship with a girl, dont tell her your weaknesses or vulnerabilities. give her some secrets, so she gets "included", but only stuff like... "i secretly like mandy moore" or other artists she might semi-secretly like too. not like "im terrified of heights" <-- that is not the "deep, artistic guy a gal can fall in love with", that is a wuss! <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> but... secretly liking romance movies and wanting to watch them with her, etc. whatever caters to her needs, but those are pretty much the generic ones that will work 9 times out of ten... works best if you actually mean it <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
now i was going to write more, but i forgot what i was going to say, so ill leave on this note..
remember, this is not TRICKING or DECIEVING the girls. nothing like that at all, you have the wrong mindset if you think that. the truth is, girls are not straight-shooters. they love mind games, they love social complexities and all that. political diplomacy has nothing on the female social situation... so when youre 'playing the game', remember that it is just that. like giving her a backrub, or taking her out to a nice dinner unexpectedly, playing the female game is just showing her that you care enough to make the effort. and by understanding the female mind [well, you dont, but by doing all these things you give out the impression that you do], and by knowing her secrets and tricks, et cetera, it adds to your 'mysterious' side
another good tip is to go out and read all the [legal, of course! oh my heavens, yes] e-books on dating and females that you can. because although, as ive said before, they read mostly like a **** pill ad, they do have some gems of information
i particularly like dale carnegie, although im not sure if his is free or not.. have a look anyway <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
eediot, away! *flaps cape*
jk, arpreciate the time you obviously took <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
and if it takes longer to read than it does to eat a donut, its not worth reading
probably best to keep that to yourself <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif' /><!--endemo-->
unless you intend to go after a fat american jenny-craig employee and you want to have competitions <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
probably best to keep that to yourself <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif' /><!--endemo-->
unless you intend to go after a fat american jenny-craig employee and you want to have competitions <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
ROFL
meow!
oh and keep it on topic <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif' /><!--endemo-->
another tip
become mates with her friends, if they love you, she will be all over you
Yeah, I get their MSN, and woo them with my Online Checkers skills. No lady can resist a master of teh online checkers.
Moquiao, eediot, and everyone -- thanks for the advice and pep talks =P there's this bar I really like (they have awesome bands there) that perhaps I should start hanging out in more... malls are a good idea too, I never really thought about them -- I'm a city boy and I always thought of malls as the suburban place to meet people; I don't have one TOO close to me... but maybe I should rethink that and start hitting the malls...
feh, I don't really want to bump this topic, I've probably gotten enough out of it by now <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo--> I'll keep you all posted if I get brave like I should and start meeting people <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
bs im a nerd, look at my pic. im more nerd then all of thouest.
ah ha escape!
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k macho
get all cor
drop sword
sac cor
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recall
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sit
sleep
quit
get a trench coat
put nothing on under
flash flash flash
it works everytime
bs dirty
get all cor
put all bag
rem crown
drop crown sac crown
sac cor
drink jug
quaff yellow
*your eyes tingle.*
c sanc
c haste
c giant
c fly
sit
sleep
quit
get barrel back
drink barrel
drink barrel
drink barrel
drink barrel
c feast
c feast
c feast
eat fruit
eat fruit
eat fruit
stretch
yawn
stand
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kill snake
kill snake
kill rabbit
kill bear
flee
flee
flee
get all corpse
wear all
recall
quit
And for the advice about meeting girls. I think the type of girls you are going to want to marry are going to be the ones you are already friends with, because.. lets be honest.. might be great to sleep with a wild chick, but when you got to put up with them the rest of your life, you'd rather be with someone you get along with well on a daily basis.
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you
A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall
As soon as he married her and then she starts
To do the things that will break his heart
But if you make an ugly woman your wife
A-you'll be happy for the rest of your life
An ug-a-ly woman cooks meals on time
And she'll always give you peace of mind
Don't let your friends say you have no taste
Go ahead and marry anyway
Though her face is ugly, her eyes don't match
Take it from me, she's a better catch
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treat em like crap <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif' /><!--endemo--> well not exactly, i dont mean it literally, but it makes no sense. you treat a woman nice, she thinks youre a spineless wimp, the sensetive side only worked in the 80s, when it was a steep contrast to the "hardcore farm labourer" of the past. so now theyre getting bored, and they want a man to take control and treat them like theyre second-rate. they dont want a guy to be all over them, giving them flowers... save that for a stable relationship <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo--> they want to be able to idolise their man, have him in control and making the decisions and giving off the impression that she is replacable so not to give him ****... blah blah etc etc
so take the initiative, even if its just a facade, go out and put on the man's man persona, and make sure its clear what you expect of her.. sort of.
you'll have to do some creative interpretation of what i was trying to make out above, but i think if you already have a hint of what im trying to get across, you'll understand.
not many profound observations in this post, but hey i can only be perfect 9/10ths of the time <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
treat em like crap <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif' /><!--endemo--> well not exactly, i dont mean it literally, but it makes no sense. you treat a woman nice, she thinks youre a spineless wimp, the sensetive side only worked in the 80s, when it was a steep contrast to the "hardcore farm labourer" of the past. so now theyre getting bored, and they want a man to take control and treat them like theyre second-rate. they dont want a guy to be all over them, giving them flowers... save that for a stable relationship <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo--> they want to be able to idolise their man, have him in control and making the decisions and giving off the impression that she is replacable so not to give him ****... blah blah etc etc
so take the initiative, even if its just a facade, go out and put on the man's man persona, and make sure its clear what you expect of her.. sort of.
you'll have to do some creative interpretation of what i was trying to make out above, but i think if you already have a hint of what im trying to get across, you'll understand.
not many profound observations in this post, but hey i can only be perfect 9/10ths of the time <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
I don't know, my friend said just be yourself because he is just like me, he's not the sensitive kind of guy, and his relationship started off as good to real bad.
so start out bad boy, as she changes, you adjust
so start out bad boy, as she changes, you adjust <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Genious. <3 eediot.
I mean, how could I not be? I am a Love Doctor! Look at me!
<img src='http://www.tomopdam.com/tom_joke2.jpg' border='0' alt='user posted image' />
Yeah, that's right. You know.
Disclaimer: This is a lot of spiritual belief and such. If you don't like it, tough. <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Me and my girlfriend are both 18. We met 20 years ago <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->. We met as wolves obviously, and spent 2 years of our lives together..then we both got shot which sucked.
As for the meeting: Basically when I first saw her, she was lonely, she had no pack to go to, so I let her in mine. I comforted her, helped her.. we quickly became friends.... and eventually..mates <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->.
(I'll save the rest of the details, as some people *cough*insane*cough:D* don't like the idea of wolves doing natural things....(disclaimer:<span style='font-size:4pt;line-height:100%'> you are responsible for any and all bad mental images this may produce, you sick minded perverts XD</span>))